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I feel terrible.

I’m still in high school and everything feels like it’s al happening at once. I don’t have any friends, I don’t know what to do with my future, school gets more stressful and complicated and I don’t know how to take it anymore. I could do away with everything I have, all I want is one good friend my age who I could relate to, somebody I could trust and who honestly supports and likes me, who genuinely wants to help out. I don’t want any more of this fake stuff people do all the time, superficial friendships and stupid conversations; I want something genuine, deep, sincere. I just feel so lonely and I wish I had a good reason to try to deal with everything more, a reason better than myself.

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seas light offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (13 minutes after post)

Don’t give up hope. Good friends are hard to come by, true, but once you have one they are a keeper. Maybe you should try to be more involved with school activities.Joining a team related to something you have an interest in. By doing so, you would be more around the same people more often, thus depending on one another for the sake of this team. It could be a swim team, basketball, choir, anything, that will give you the opportunity to get to really know some of them better.We have to put ourselves out there sometimes to get the results we want. You sound like you’d make an excellent friend. I’m sure in time you will be making good friends with some effort on your part.Just stay as nice as you are, and know your not the only one that feels this way.Pick wisely from now on.Two-faced people are every where sadly. All the best to you :)

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thriple321 offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (15 minutes after post)

hello anon. bless you, you sound very sweet. please don’t panic. school is always a strange time, i didn’t make any friends at school either. try not to let it get to you too much. you will leave school and go on to other things and you will make friends. i know how lonely you are, and i also know it will get better, promise. take good care xx

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flamedancer66 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (39 minutes after post)

things will get better. why dont you have friends? im sure u can make a few.

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lynn1319 offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Omaha, NE, US | 1 year ago (1 hour, 44 minutes after post)

I’m in high school too so I know what you mean: homework piles up, you take test after test, and eventually the teachers start getting on your case. The only people you have that know what you’re dealing with are those your age, and not all of them can be trusted. They can be selfish and manipulative. But if you’re lucky enough you find someone with the same interests who is easy to talk to.

sorry, didn’t mean to ramble.

Anyway, I wish you all the luck that takes you where you want to be. And know there are people who will understand and help you in your time of need.

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