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i’m just ranting, no need for advice, i know what everyone is gonna say.

but anyways i’m sick and tired of my mom having her boyfriend over. he’s a really nice guy and everything but i just hate having another grown up around, and they both annoy me. my mom is a ***** when she’s around. she yells at me when i don’t “smile enough, talk enough” or whatever it’s just so annoying. i’m not happy. and my mom doesn’t care becuase when she asks me how i feel about the relationship and she knows i’m not so happy about it all she does is yell saying OH WHAT I CAN”T BE IN A RELATIONSHIP??? i never said she couldn’t i just don’t wanna be around them. so about her boyfriend, like i said he’s really nice, and he understands me but at the same time he’s so ******* annoying. talks about things i don’t care about, asks me so many questions it’s like can you leave me alone now? my mom tries to get me to get together with them but i never want to. i’ve been having a lot of issues this year i don’t really go to anyone about them. but i guess i should let them all out here. well, early this year on my 16th birthday my dad called me saying he moved to florida which surprised me because he’s been talking about moving there since he left me and my mom when i was 8 and he finally did it. so he then says, don’t tell your mom for at least a month so i could fix everything and i was like ok whatever ( i was already pissed so i was like whatever i didn’t care) so then a month later, i feel like calling my dad, i call his cell and his phone is disconnected. i waited to hear from him again but nothing. i told my mom and she got upset with me. went to court and two weeks later she tells me that he’s gone for good and she just makes me feel like **** about it but i had no idea he would do it so why yell at me? i began to feel like **** when final exams were starting at school. i didn’t go out as much as i used to, didn’t talk to people ask often, i just can’t trust anyone here they never keep my ******* secrets. so the last day of final exams i was already having an off day and then my friend calls to go chill my mom just yells and says i can’t because HER BOYFRIEND is coming to eat. i don’t understand does she not get that i don’t wanna be there with them?? so i start crying and she yells so i start to yell back, more fighting , latr on i get kicked out of my house but go over to my other friends house, got kicked out 2 times this summer. i still haven’t gone out much. i’ve gone to a few parties here and there at least. so lately my mom started this thing where she has her boyfriend come here to eat more often i ******* hate it, i show them that i’m unhappy but my mom ends up saying that i’m a piece of ****, and that i just ruin everything. even my family asks me why i’m different it’s like wtf **** off! and then she says that we might even move in with him, and he lives really close so i wont be going to a new school but still it’s just i can’t ******* take it. i don’t want to move and i can’t stand being around my mom. i just want to be left alone, i don’t bother anyone and they just come invading my privacy i had enough…

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Anonymous #
1 year ago (3 minutes after post)

Do you know where in Florida? How far away from Florida are you?

Don’t tell anyone I told you this, but when the oppurtunity comes, grab the money, find a way to get there and run away. See what happens.

I can help you plan it out if you give more information, i.e., where you are now vs. where you’re trying to go, bus fares/ etc.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (5 minutes after post)

well i live in new york. but i hate my dad too though and he’s married and has a son 10 years younger than i.

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1 year ago (6 minutes after post)

Got any other relatives?

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