Love help: Oh my god.

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Oh my god.

I dont know what to do. Im absolutley in love with this girl, i mean full out in love. Its not even that i think shes hot its just that shes so beautiful and i want to have a relationship. One problem is im almost positive she likes this other guy. I really feel awful because i’ve never truly felt this way before. I dont know what i should do (talk to her more or just let it happen). I dont want to go up and say stuff like this to her because that would kind of be weird since we’ve only talked a little. She thinks im cute but she still likes the other kid more and its making me feel so bad. Everytime i see her or a picture i get that butterfly stuff in my stomach. Please help me stop feeling this and get over it because its really annoying.

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littlenick 126 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 minute after post)

Move on to somebody else and don’t force the issue. Don’t put yourself in a position where you are going to end up hurt!

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Anonymous #
1 year ago (5 minutes after post)

You dont sound like you love her. You are “infactuated” with her, I think your peaking on being obsessed with her. So this isnt healthy, you cant love someone you dont know personaly.

What your doing now is kind of like a groupy who “loves” a celeb. they only love them from their appearence and the art they have been involved with.

Dont fool yourself you just have a crush thats getting out of hand.

veg_head 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (44 minutes after post)

I agree with anon, you can’t have real love with someone you don’t really know. Love is a two way path.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 3 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
You dont sound like you love her. You are “infactuated” with her, I think your peaking on being obsessed with her. So this isnt healthy, you cant love someone you dont know personaly.

Well said. :)

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 19 minutes after post)

I don’t think you should just forget about her. If you really like her then try talking to her to see how she feels. Don’t come off as overly obsessed though because that will just be a turn off. I’m sure if you say you love her as much as you really do, taking a risk will be worth it. If you do end up getting hurt, time will heal your pain and you’ll find love again.

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An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (1 day, 11 hours after post)

Don’t love her because she’s beautiful. She is beautiful because you love her. Try not to put too much hope. Ask her how she feels about you. Maybe she’s waiting for you to make a move first. You wouldn’t know if she likes the other guy more because like what you said, you only talk a little. If you don’t want to confront her yet, then, try and be closer to her. help whenever you can. :D

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