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Instead of faking who are in front of people, just be yourself. If people do not accept who you are then who cares. There are millions of people in the world and you might meet new friends everyday. A good relationship does not happen in five days. It takes time. I assure you in the end all the work you put into the relationship will be worth it.

CONNOR [FIERCE wrote:
]Instead of faking who are in front of people, just be yourself. If people do not accept who you are then who cares. There are millions of people in the world and you might meet new friends everyday. A good relationship does not happen in five days. It takes time. I assure you in the end all the work you put into the relationship will be worth it.

Myself? Good advice, accept that the real me is an unattractive ball of rage and confusion. I had many long term friends, lasting 5 yrs and more, but I changed so drastically that they became strangers almost overnight. I’ve put bucket loads of effort in to relationships, but I’m starting to think it was a waste, as the ones that ment and helped the most were the ones that took no effort and just happened. And the perfect strangers are often kinder than life long friends, as you aren’t afraid to be honest around them.
Thanks for advice, I’m just wired and wacked right now. I think I just bit off more than I could chew and my mind just ran in circles of uncertainty and isolation.

Well maybe try seeing a counselor? Other than that I suggest trying to focus on other matters. Keep your mind busy.

that really is the obviouse answer isn’t it. :-|

arrrhh, yeah, that’s what I need to do. dang mucking turtle pooping councillors, asking all those difficult questions and poking all the sore bits…

Swearing on help.com makes you creative. thanks connor, Even an hour later, I’m feelign a lot better.

I guess it just is what it is. We all have problems man. Just take baby steps. If you are depressed you could try antidepressants. I cannot condone them though.

I was feeling good, and so I set about doing some difficult stuff, I want to change my birth certificate to not be fraudulent. I was calling up the right people when the options for how to do so started brancing, and I started feeling emotional overwhelmed. My habit in these times was to do things that just aren’t possible anymore, so I started wigging out.

But now I at least know my coping stratergies don’t work, and have a test case for testing knew ones. Decided drugs aren’t for me, but I should get some prof help.

Just do whatever makes you happy and keeps you busy. Drugs are the last step but maybe jogging or running might take your mind to different places and keep you healthy.

5kms a day. Thanks, I’m a regular user here, and know all the right things to do, I was just overwhelmed before.

I think I was starting a new challenge to avoid facing my current one that got to hard. Lesson learnt.

Thanks Connor, going to close post now.

woops, didn’t tick anon, oh well.