Love help: am i in love with him?

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am i in love with him?

well, i had a really bad relationship with my ex-boyfriend back in april/may. i thought i was in love with him. it ended up nearly tearing my friendship with my best friend apart. i did things that i’m not proud of, and i apologized for everything.

thing is, i’m in a new relationship. and…i love him, and i think i’m IN love with him. but i’m afraid that when i say that i am, everything will fall apart like last time. :( i really need help figuring out if i am in love with him, because i love him so very much.

so how will i know if i am in love with him?

–anonymous FREAKING OUT girl

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dixiedixiedixi 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 minutes after post)

hmmm i would write a list about all the things i would look for in a guy a soul mate

then see if he has all of them

if he dont he might learn to be perfect for you dont give up yet!!

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berta 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (4 minutes after post)

if you are asking then you aren’t in love. being in love is nothing explainable. its a feeling of wholeness when that person is near, its knowing that they are the one.

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¡ʎuɐɟɟıʇ 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (6 minutes after post)

berta wrote:
if you are asking then you aren’t in love. being in love is nothing explainable. its a feeling of wholeness when that person is near, its knowing that they are the one.

Exactly. :)

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barely 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (15 minutes after post)

I’ve heard it said that opinion are like a**es, everyone has one and most are not pretty. So here’s mine to add to the mix. When you love someone your happiness is secondary to theirs, when you’re in love those feeling are reciprocated and each partner works at insuring the happiness of the other. This is when you become soulmates. (just my on thoughts, don’t quote it).

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pluto_goddes 1 #
Austin, TX, US | 1 year ago (1 hour, 43 minutes after post)

Just don’t say you love him yet, i’m sure it just needs more time for you to figure it out. Wait, if you love him tell him, if not, then don’t say anything. I love how people think being in love is soooo easy, it honestly isn’t. If you don’t love him like that YET but think you could, then wait. Stick it out, see wht happens. Don’t be scared to express your true feelings, if you really love him, and he really loves you, then it will all work out! Good luck

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (12 hours, 30 minutes after post)

you kinda juts aswered your own question, you told us you live him so much so its obvious how you feel for him. just try not to be to smothering perhaps?

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An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (2 days, 14 hours after post)

Trust your heart and nothing else matters in this world . listen to your heart and hear it fully . because no one can else can tell and feel what your heart is telling .

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (10 months, 2 weeks after post)

You may be right Berta and satishkumarjoth. But, when you’ve been hurt badly once it’s hard to trust your heart and how you feel. Because before the first time I fell in love I trusted my heart and soul with everything I have. Now I’m divorced and still heartbroken over the mess. The guy that I think I’m in love with is amazing, but I can barely hear my heart over my head. But, I’m not going to believe that I’m NOT in love with him just because I question it. I question everything in a relationship because of what happened to me in the past. So how do you explain that?

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