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this guy was obsessed with me..always wanted to talk to me..and now he doesnt talk anymore and seems to be uninterested.

what should i do to get over him? its really hurt me.

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southern_comfort offline Verified User (3 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 minute after post)

How did you treat him in the past?

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dixiedixiedixi offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 minute after post)

maybe he thought you did not like him so he forgot you?

try starting the convosation instaed

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Bogdan (Gone) offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (2 minutes after post)

Make sure he has no way to contact you, change you MSN email and dont tell him. Delete him as a contact, then if you feel like you want to talk to him, come here and talk to us instead. We are interesting and fun.

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ntambur offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (3 minutes after post)

well we have never met. we talked on msn for about a year. on webcam..and he even wrote i love miss tash on his knuckles in permanent texta. he talked to me like all the time..and asked for my number..we txted all night and day. and then one month later..he didnt talk to me and was completely different..and whenever i do talk to him he’s not the same. its really weird.

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Kanabi offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (27 minutes after post)

i think he may have gotten bored.

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veg_head offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (27 minutes after post)

maybe he met someone he could see face to face and didn’t have the nerve to tell you.

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ntambur offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (51 minutes after post)

ok thanks bogdan..that was the greatest advice on here. ok..and you know what really sux..thou i like the same music he does and the same tv shows. so whenever i watch my favourite tv show..or listen to music..it reminds me of him LOL farrrrr out

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Bogdan (Gone) offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (58 minutes after post)

That really bites, but as time goes on, the memories will subside and it will get easier

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Joey_PR offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (59 minutes after post)

veg_head wrote:
maybe he met someone he could see face to face and didn’t have the nerve to tell you.

I agree.
Usually a change like his means the person is not interested anymore and found someone else.
Sucks, but its like Bogdan said.

Bogdan wrote:
….but as time goes on, the memories will subside and it will get easier

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ntambur offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour after post)

how do people move on so quick? thats so crazy..and all the guys i seem to like dont like me and the guys who like me i dont like them…LOL is that always the way to go?

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Bogdan (Gone) offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 53 minutes after post)

ntambur wrote:
how do people move on so quick? thats so crazy..and all the guys i seem to like dont like me and the guys who like me i dont like them…LOL is that always the way to go?

For the most part, yeah. But you will find someone you like, who likes you. Moving on is not usually a rapid thing, but in trying to move on and forgetting the past as best you can, you will be over it before you know it.

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