friends help: I feel I’ve lost all my friends… - Help.com

its just change sweety thats all///

i think you should devle into heavy drug use and promiscuos relationships. it’s the only solution

Well, believe me, I know how you feel. A very similar situation happened to me. But first, you sort of need to look at it from THEIR perspective, also. Not just your’s. That is, if you want to fully understand the dynamic that’s playing out.

They’re girls. Which means emotions are much higher, and girls tend to assume more. You didn’t want to room with them. Despite the good intentions you had for doing so, what do you think that said to THEM? Think about it…And then for you to publicly speak bad about them when they reacted in a, no offense, pretty predictable way, really wasn’t good either. You should’ve just let them go. I know it hurts, but you have to. You should’ve spoken to people who don’t know them if you wanted to vent. I’m sure over time they would’ve come around. But regardless, it’s college! It’s a chance to meet NEW people. Not hang with the old.

I’m sorry your reputation has been “tarnished”, per say. But you have to learn to get through that.

I know where you’re coming from. In my hometown, they split our high schools up my SENIOR. YEAR. And ALL of my friends, and I seriously mean ALL of them, went to the high school opposite from me. They soon started forgetting about me and inviting me to less events (even when I got a car and didn’t need a ride. i couldve drove myself)…It got me angry more and more. But I had to supress it. Then I went to prom with my friend whos a notorious tease. I brought her to my schools prom which meant i had no other friends there but her. So, naturally, I was bound to stick to her like glue. She eventually dumped me and I got upset. After about an hour I got tired of it and told her I wanted to go home. THen I got to school and everyone ignored me. She told everyone I screamed at her and ****. And I lost every single friend minus my best friend because of it. I was losing them anyhow, though. So, it wasn’t too big of a deal. But it just sucks…

So my summer into college has been ****. But you have to learn to deal with it.

im going through exactly the same thing exactly how yu feel is same with me
i need help no one cares and ive done everything to get friends back
im so out of the inner circle
and i always was
and now i wanna be back so bad

im going through the same thing i had a big group of big friends nd we all hung out all the time real close nd anyway ive basically grown away from my best friend nd everything elses started getting awkward her and my other two best friends started hanging out like all the time i have one friend who stuck by me in all this but we havent been friends anywhere near as long as i have been with the others anyway they dont talk to me they dont say hi they try to avoid eye contact dnt text me back or take my calls nd i havent done anything im just left out of the group and i lost em all nd i just want my best friends back so anyway i needed to vent too hope ur stuff turned out ok nd thanks for giving me the opportunity to vent

I’m going through the same thing, and its really hard because all the memories you’ve had with that close group of friends is just starting to slip away. When they leave you out of things or just stopped bothering to invite you with them to go to places, its a sign to start moving on. Even though its hard to make new friends it might be the best solution. Find true friends even if its only one person, its better than having many who don’t truly care

i know exactly how you feel this is happening to me atm and i just dont know what to do im in my last year of school and have taken on so much extra stuff i have no time to spend with them 24/7 like we used to and now they dont sit beside me dont even try make the effort to talk to me they simply ignore me. al the time…

I’m in the same situation so these days I skip lunches, eat alone or hide in the music school. The only time we talk is in classes but then they don’t group with me any more and walk away. I would make new friends but there is nobody else because they are a large majority of the year level and the other half are city folk. They are all i have left :(

That’s always hard to go through. Don’t lose hope. Think positively. At least now you know that the friendship isn’t really meant to be. Wouldn’t you rather have true friends? Try to think positive.