friends help: I feel I’ve lost all my friends… - Help.com

It really is just change, it sucks a lot a lot, but you’ll be okay i promise. If they’r REALLY worth your time talk to them, don’t apologize but talk about other things, try to catch up on their life now, IF not, then just make other friends. As much as i tried to stay friends with my Bests from High school i couldn’t, ihave like four people i still considering my FRIEND form high school. Change happens, it sucks, and its hard, but don’t hold on to the people of your past that aren’t worth it, friendship should be easy, if it isn’t then just let it go. It isn’t worth your tears and hurting.

I think if you cant tell your friends how you really feel they are not your true friends. All you can do is look for friends in other places. I found out with many of my past friends I couldn’t tell them what i really thought.

I’m sorry people can be crul especially girls! Things will hopefully die down soon and that way perhaps you guys can get it behind you so things won’t be that awkward. Can you still hang out with other people if she’s not around? Change is a hard thing to go through but if your really ready to work things out (not saying be friends again or anything) talk to them. At least that way you can have an understanding and be civil. Best of luck to you dear!! xoxo

College can do a lot to a person. Its true - I’m a much different person now than when I startetd college. It seems like your distraught over this person because you still care about her because of all the good times you had back in hs. But maybe what you should relaize is that she could be a totally different person now that back then. But none of that has anything to do with you. You are worth much more than to be treated like **** by an ex-friend. Find some new friends - Im sure if you look you can find some that’ll stick with you for a lifetime!

I relate well with you. I admire your will to want to work things out. I lost pretty much all my friends from high school and honestly.. I haven’t been able to find any new ones. I haven’t hung out with anyone for nearly a year. It’s pathetic, but I hope you at least have found some new friends that are true and mean the world to you. Good luck, I sure know I need it lol.

none of u were probably sincere to eachother. u might have got on well then, not becos u liked each other but cos u had things in common. it happens all the time. we lose some frienships and never get it back . u just have to move on and find new friends and this time be open and sincere, don’t gossip and don’t pretend otherwise u won’t have the frienship u need.

sam, i like how you think…. haha