Love help: So here’s the story me and my Girl were with each other - Help.com

So here’s the story me and my Girl were with each other

for six years and I loved her to pieces we obviously had some fights but nothing outta control!Everything was great lotsa friends always something to do!Anyways we had a couple nights where we went out got drunk then she would start on me for no reason at all we would argue I would just tell her this is pointless and talk to me tommorow if this still bugs you!A couple nights later she would say you know were not good and I’m like what do you mean were not good this continued for a week or so till finally another drunk night and she starts on me again I got a little angry and it was over the next morning I tried to cuddle up and make up with her and she tells me she’s done!We talk a little and I leave to my folks place to let her cool down for the night!”we have been living together for 4+ years” I returned home to talk to her and she tells me she feels like crap cause she did drugs last night”she did cocaine”Just so you know when I met her she did it occasionally but when I built feelings for her I said I want you to be my girl cause your awesome but I cant have a Girl that does that she chose me over the drug and has credited me with saving her life!So now WTF does she go and do that for!So I tell I can’t be mad given the situation but I’m a little dissapointed with it!Anyways no progress it turns into us taking a break!Anyway so over the next few weeks she has been hanging out with this gimp from work who has hung out with us in the past who I was only nice to cause he’s a coworker of her’s and never felt threatened by him he’s a gimp!So we share a dog so when I would return our dog to the appartment I would look around and I would find remnants of cocaine on cd covers and in the garbage I would find packets empty!So now have come to find out she’s been doing cocaine fairly frequently which kills me cause I know how amazing she is without it!And I wanna kill the gimp cause I know that he does it lots and he’s pullin her down!Now she’s rebounding with this guy for say the last month and a half and he is 6 years younger than she is!Anyway everytime she see’s me I catch her looking at me through her work window I play pool beside her work,and it’s not just once or twice it’s all the time!Weeks have passed I’ve sent her letters,texts telling her I love her and am worried she says it’s under control I say It’s not cause your stil doing cocaine and you dont need cause nothing good will come of it!Anyways after weeks of only seeing her through a window she finally came down to see me at the pool hall and since then she’s come down12 times in a month everytime she comes straight for me sits beside me and we talk for hours like we used to,other people she know’s are there too but she only talks to me which is good because I love her to pieces and need her to be off the drugs so the last time she came down to see me we were talking for a while when I decided to tell nicely that I did’nt like what she was doing to herself “cocaine”and that I love her and care for her and that’s why I brought this up she got teary eyed for a while then her cab showed up I gave her a big hug kissed her on her cheek and whispered I love you in her ear!I think she coming around because why does she keep coming to see me all the time?I want nothing but to be back where we were in our relationship,I cant stand to see her with the gimp and he will never come anywhere I am cause he is terrified of me cause he know’s I don’t like him and could snap the dirty cokehead in half but I don’t need to get charged!Besides im being the bigger man here!Any suggestions I’m a little confused!

This open post was written 11 months, 4 weeks ago | V/U/S: 231, 7, 5 | Edit Post | Leave a reply | Report Post

Cocaine, DOG, Love, Ear, Month, Window, Week, girl, Year, drug (How Tags Affect Reciprocity)

A logged in and verified Help.com member has the ability to setup a Friends List and invite others to help with posts.