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i had two very close friends, the three of us would hang out all the time do stuff with each other and really got along well.

through out the whole of last year we pretty much just hung out all the time and we were the closest of buddies and that was that. then 2008 started.

my one friend started doing IB while my other friend and i did A level. through out the entire first term of school we got along reasonably well but things had started to get ‘awkward’ between us. only two of us were hanging out at a time oppose to all three of us and we didnt get along as well as we used to.

soon our group had dissapeared and i found it a very awkward situation between us. soon i was replaced by two other guys and we were nolonger hanging out at all.

my one friend doing ib, hardley speaks to me any more and seems to not want to either. my other friend doing A level with me is a little better though. i feel like i have lost my closest friends and i dont know what to do.

they both seem to get so drunk all the time exept the one guy seems to be doing it less but the other is doing it every weekend and is very distant with me.

i know it seems like a lost cause but is there anything that i could possibly do to regain their friendship or is it a lost cause and should i just move on and accept it?

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www.alex9 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (40 minutes after post)

It depends how close you are to them.
If you are really close don’t give up, at the end of the day
they are still your friends even if you have drifted apart.
Think of something that you all like doing and suggest you do
it and catch up.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (4 hours, 33 minutes after post)

It’s always good to make new friends. I believe that there are different friends for different times, but you will always have your best friends. Friends come and go and sometimes it is just good to move on and find new friends. I know the feeling. I rarely see my best friends, but when I do it is great. Since then I have made new best friends. It is good to have many friends.

www.alex9 wrote:
It depends how close you are to them.
If you are really close don’t give up, at the end of the day
they are still your friends even if you have drifted apart.
Think of something that you all like doing and suggest you do
it and catch up.

You should find a way to catch up with your best friends though.

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