friends help: what do i do?

gigi1261

what do i do?

ok so there’s this guy who i really like, and i thought he liked me back for a while. like i’d catch him staring at me during class and i could tell that he listened in on my conversations with my friends from time to time because he would add his comments in as well. i really really like him. but now i’m concerned that he totally hates me and that i’ll never get to go out with him. i commented on a picture of his online and he told me to ‘get out of here.’ that was all. what if he totally hates me? what do i do? please help!!!

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Penguin B☺y Brian 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (4 minutes after post)

just ask him out, take a risk, it could be the best thing you ever do ;)

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gigi1261 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (4 minutes after post)

but he could also laugh in my face

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(>'')>~~~Kyle 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (4 minutes after post)

If he hates you then you can’t do nothing

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(>'')>~~~Kyle 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (5 minutes after post)

Penguin B☺y wrote:
just ask him out, take a risk, it could be the best thing you ever do ;)

gigi1261 wrote:
but he could also laugh in my face

better to try than do nothing. I’ve been laughed at to my face for doing the exact same thing, but you have to try. Can’t let fear of rejection prevent you from trying. I learned that…the way anyone else does

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Penguin B☺y Brian 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (6 minutes after post)

gigi1261 wrote:
but he could also laugh in my face

if he does just wlk off, show him your not really bothered, and if you are, just walk off and go somewere away rom him and then let the emotions out

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john-diggity 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (7 minutes after post)

Don’t fear rejection. If you fear rejection, how can you find acceptance? If you fear rejection, you never ask, if you never ask, you’ll never know. Which is better, to be rejected, or to worry about it?

gigi1261 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (8 minutes after post)

ha its funny his name is actually kyle…
i am only 14 and have never had a real bf before, i’ve been with guys but never officially. so i have no experience in making the first move. and also, it’s unnerving to try to connect with him in a class where he’s surrounded by friends and so am i. i don’t want to be rejected/make a move in front of an audience.

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gigi1261 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (12 minutes after post)

and i think i’d rather worry about it and miss my opportunity than make a fool of myself…

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john-diggity 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (15 minutes after post)

Oh, ok. To be honest and please forgive me, but being as young as he is, more than likely he is going through that “girls are icky stage” lol. I think it is probably good to wait, think about your feelings and grow as a person first. You need to know who you truly are before you go looking for someone. Not saying you do not know who you are, just that you might need some “me” time.

gigi1261 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (19 minutes after post)

he’s had girlfriends in the past, but he seems to be sticking with his bros this year, not too many friends-who-are-girls. i just don’t know what to do, i have a tendency to freak certain guys out. boys either love or hate me, there’s no in between. right now i’m just trying to figure out where he stands with me.

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john-diggity 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (23 minutes after post)

To be honest, he is probably more interested with his bros. right now. I’ve seen the cycles before. He will eventually be looking for a girl again. Just be nice to him, but do not try getting too “involved” with him. If he came looking before, chances are he will again.

Red_Sky 9 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (46 minutes after post)

Like John-diggity said he’s probably really concerned with his guy friendships right now. I had this terrible boyfriend back in middle school who would be the nicest boy when we were together and be a complete jerk when we were in front of his friends. He explained it to me back then as him not wanting his friends to think he was whipped or that he was picking me over them. Needless to say I dumped him rather quickly. Not that his priorities weren’t in order, he was just plain rude though!

But yeah if you really think this guy is worth the hassle then you never know until you try. Just feel it out for the next week and if his mood is still really icy, forget about it. But if he seems confused, just talk to him!

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