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My girlfriend is through this phase thinking shes fat, trust me shes not, she only gained three prounds.

And because of it she wont let me see her naked anymore. We do make out but she lets got to the point where I cant control myself. We have been fighting a lot about of this issue.

(this may make me sound a jerk) during one of our fights I call her fat. She was upset she left in tears. She wont answer my calls and she slam the door on my face when I to apologize to her. Is she going break with me?

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 63 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year ago (2 minutes after post)

You hit her where it hurts. A girl has to trust a guy before she feels comfortable being intimate with him.

If you really cared about her you would be ok with taking things slower.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (31 minutes after post)

if it was me thats the girl. i would just be feeling really pissed of and when i felt better i would accept your calls.
but i dunno wat kinda girl she is. she might. because some people, how fat they are is a ‘delicate’ topic with them

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (32 minutes after post)

yeah, dude. you really messed up. bad. i get the frustration, trust me. although, if you love her and care about her feelings, you’d take your time with her. if she’s not comfortable with herself how do you comfortable do you think she is with you and her. making her feel comfortable is the first priority. you realllllly severed a chance and fell about 30 rungs down the ladder by saying an immature statement like that. it’s almost as if you want her to break up with you. no offense, but you deserve this treatment and need to give her time until she can recover from this THAN maybe you can begin building trust and comfort.

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