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I feel like I have no life.

It’s hard to hang out with my friends b/c my school has people from a lot of different places and most of my friends live far (like an hour) away. I never really have time to hang out with them on days I have school and on the weekends I’m busy or I’m just really tired.

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PaDLe offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

What do you mean by the people in your school is from all over? You can’t make friends with them?

It’s not that you have no life, life has much more to offer than just hanging out with friends. Find something else to do near you. Read books.. etc..

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11 months, 4 weeks ago (34 minutes after post)

PaDLe wrote:
What do you mean by the people in your school is from all over? You can’t make friends with them?

It’s not that you have no life, life has much more to offer than just hanging out with friends. Find something else to do near you. Read books.. etc..

I mean they’re from all different towns in my county.

I really want to hang out with them though, but I have no time…

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (37 minutes after post)

Then just focus on the things that matters now like your studies. why are you so busy anyways?

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I feel like I have no life. It’s hard to hang out with my friends b/c my school has people from all over and most of my friends live far away. I never really have time to hang out with them on days I have school and on the weekends I’m always busy on sat., and sometimes sun. or I’m just really tired. I do hang out with them sometimes, but I never can for long and we can’t really do anything.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (11 hours, 42 minutes after post)

Think you have no life?
Let me tell you my side of the story.
my classes starts from 8 am to 4.30 pm. It’s an hour drive from my house and I need to send my brother to his school which starts at 7 so i usually leave home at 6. I woke up at 5. After school, I have to rush to work which starts at 4.30 pm and my boss is very considerate. It depends on the shift. I will finish at about 11 if i start early. I will arrive home at about 12 or 1 depending on the shift again and go to sleep and the next day, it will start all over again.

I don’t feel like I have no life. I am tired all the time but I will go out once a week after work on Saturday and on Sunday morning, I go to church!! I only get 1 off day in a week.

It’s all about your will. If you want to do it, act on it. you can! Don’t make excuses. Focus on things that really matters first! Your friends will understand.

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An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (5 months, 2 weeks after post)

no life? to me, having a life is just that, being constantly busy or able to take up the bulk of your time with something, a hobby, sport or some ******** like that. I feel myself right now that i have no life, i can talk to no one without coming off arrogant, i’m trying to help myself, but i feel it’s impossible. Man, i know where you’re coming from. I do nothing, i’m no good at sports, i have a mishappenly shaped body, i can’t act appropriately when anywhere, i don’t know what it is from. I’m 15 and male btw. I don’t really have any desire to do anything, no ambition to do anything with myself. I don’t know what’s wrong with me. Now, my recourse is probably just to get out of high school and idk, get a job, sit around, i really don’t know wtf i’m going to do.

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