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what do you think would happen if everyone just did things spontaneously?

like a couple of months ago myself and a few friends went to the pub….well after a few, someone (might be me) said lets go on a road trip!!!! and we ended up in BRISTOL!!!!! it was good,,,,,,,nooooooo amazing lol,,,,but do you think, we have to choose what we do with thought behind it?????

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skyy offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

If everyone did things spontaneously then a lot more ppl will be happy. Plus we wont be disappointed because we didnt expect anything only something fun and different

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DoubleGin19 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 85 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

hey good answer lol,,,,,,,but why dont we then?????

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skyy offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (33 minutes after post)

Well that i do not know… Maybe because ppl are tight on money and think about gas. Or they are too worried about everyday life. Most of the things we worry about are not in our control which means more ppl should think about what will make them happy in the now because stressing wont make anything better only worse

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Barbyman offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (34 minutes after post)

spontaneously can be dangerous as well.I have seen a young men doing a somersault on the beach once.He did this spontaneously and broke his Neck.almost drowned..

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DoubleGin19 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 85 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (36 minutes after post)

ouch,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,but if you had the money,,,,,,,would you do something straight away without thought behind it????????

like grab your passport and jump on a plane to anywhere????

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skyy offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (36 minutes after post)

There is good and bad in everything.

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skyy offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (37 minutes after post)

DoubleGin19 wrote:
ouch,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,but if you had the money,,,,,,,would you do something straight away without thought behind it???????? like grab your passport and jump on a plane to anywhere????

Hell yeah :D! But unfortunately that is not the case :(

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 150 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (38 minutes after post)

What if we all happen to spontaneoulsy combust? That would be one heck of a fire!

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skyy offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (38 minutes after post)

So you cant let the bad stop you from living… People die from planned sky dives and parachuting but that doesnt stop others from doing it everyday

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DoubleGin19 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 85 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

yaaaaaaay lol!!!!

and oh dear littlenick lol,,,,spontaneously combust lol,,,,,,wasnt quite what i meant, but its a good answer lol

so if thats the case skyy,,,,,why do millions of us live like slaves??? get up work, go home sleep,,,,,get up work,,,,,,,go home sleep????

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skyy offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (47 minutes after post)

I dont know but i do know i dont want to live my life that way. I want to define my life not by the standards of others. Society say you have to have a 9 to 5, kids, husband/wife but they leave out the time for you. What about us and our well being. I mean yes we will have food and a roof over our heads but if we are stressed out and worrying about things 24/7 how can anyone really enjoy their lives?

I mean everyone say they want to have a purpose in life but is our purpose on this earth are only to live as slaves?? I wish i could find a career that i love but gives me freedom to do what i please whether it be travel, volunteer (in my state or another country), etc. For this to be OUR life there are way too many boundaries that stop us from really living our lives.

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skyy offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (47 minutes after post)

And to me a week off for vacation isnt long enough at all…

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Barbyman offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (50 minutes after post)

good answer.My guess is why we are on top of the Food Chain ,because we can think or” TAO “is the meaning to reason.Still remember the Tsunami in Indonesia.People walked that far out to the water and when they have seen the Tsunami just stood there .There was still a Chance for them to get away,but they just stood there.Strange as it may be ,but when i go to the pictures i always look for the Exit and how far away it is from my Position.

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DoubleGin19 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 85 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (50 minutes after post)

wow,,,,,seems like you get where im coming from,,,,,,,,,,and at least you get a weekk off!!!! im self employed, any time i take, i dont get paid for!!!!!!

so how are you today anyway??????

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DoubleGin19 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 85 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (53 minutes after post)

really you do???? i look for the idiot whos playing with their phone!!!! and the girls of course :P lol

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Barbyman offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (54 minutes after post)

DoubleGin i was self employed for many years one day work 2 days no work suddenly spontaneously out of nowhere work for a whole month..

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DoubleGin19 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 85 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (56 minutes after post)

seriously i have worked every week day and most saturdays during the summer…….i have taken maybe 8 days off this year!!!!

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skyy offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (56 minutes after post)

DoubleGin19 wrote:
wow,,,,,seems like you get where im coming from,,,,,,,,,,and at least you get a weekk off!!!! im self employed, any time i take, i dont get paid for!!!!!!

so how are you today anyway??????

Oh i dont have a job im in college but thats how i define life and how i want mine to be lol. I need a job though. I just know my mom only got a week long vacation which was not long for the amount of time she worked. Im doing great still a little stuffed from thanksgiving lol

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skyy offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (57 minutes after post)

How are you today??

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DoubleGin19 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 85 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour after post)

lol,,,,,,,im very well thankyou,,,,,,,,,,,the weekend has come lol,,,,,,,,,,,,,and your in college?? nice,,,,,,,,,,what you doing???? or taking lol

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skyy offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

Im in pre business right now but i dont have a clue of what i want to do which really sucks :(.

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DoubleGin19 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 85 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 14 minutes after post)

really, cool,,,,,,,,that means your going to be retired by the time your 25 lol.

just remember doublegin19……also my name is matthew,,,,,its nice to meet you,,,,,,,,,spoke very nicely about you lol

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skyy offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 18 minutes after post)

I wish lol

Hi matthew it was nice meeting you as well

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DoubleGin19 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 85 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 19 minutes after post)

thank you,,,,,,,but dont forget me now,,,,,,,maybe, once your a millionaire we could do something spontaneous together lol

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skyy offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 21 minutes after post)

Hey are you being sarcastic?? lol But dont worry i wont forget about you :)

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DoubleGin19 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 85 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 26 minutes after post)

sarcastic?????? hell no,,,,,,,,a young business woman is hot in her own right!!! and maybe we could be spontaneous together??? well you have an imagination dont you :P lol

and yaaaaaaaaaaay,,,, she wont forger lol

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DoubleGin19 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 85 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 27 minutes after post)

forger lol,,oops forget lol

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skyy offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 31 minutes after post)

Lol see thats exactly what im trying not to do. I dont want to be in an office everyday of my life. But i wouldnt mind working there until i find something i can do that gives me the freedom i deserve. I want to travel and enjoy my life by being spontaneous as you put it lol. Im only a year older than you ha and we live on opposite sides of the world. (i just read your profile :P)

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chunkymove offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 19 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 32 minutes after post)

as kids we act spontaneous and its great, but we learn we can’t always act like that. MAny of the cool things you want later in life can’t be achieved spontaneously, but I’m all for random road trips. Did it a few weeks ago. Calling in sick is so much more fun when you aren’t really sick…

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DoubleGin19 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 85 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 34 minutes after post)

ooooo kinky lol,,,,,,,,,,,and so theres a pond to cross,,,,,,,im a good swimmer lol

and that one year makes you the mature one lol

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skyy offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 40 minutes after post)

Lol you are a mess. People always told me i was mature for my age but what they dont know is that i am really goofy and like to have fun.

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DoubleGin19 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 85 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 44 minutes after post)

lol,,,,,,im a mess lol?????????? and goofy and fun,,,,,then were like 2 peas somewhere spontaneously lol

and im a messs???????? it could be a kinky mess lol??!!!!

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skyy offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 48 minutes after post)

A mess in a good way, i guess we are lol

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DoubleGin19 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 85 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 51 minutes after post)

thankyou a mess in a good way,,,,,,is much more fun and entertaining………

and oooooooooooooo skyy, ” i guess we are” are you hitting on me lol?????

was that your plan all along,,,,,,to read my post and seduce me lol

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skyy offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 57 minutes after post)

No but you are hitting on me so i decided to play along lol. And no my plan was to answer your post because i found it interesting

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DoubleGin19 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 85 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 2 minutes after post)

oooooooooo skyy, you innocent little thing lol,,,,you shouldnt take any thing (key word is any thing) seriously when i talk/type lol………

and yeh i have to admit,,,,,,it is a good post lol

and i am not hitting on you :P,,,,,,,well a bit of banter is always fun hehe

and (wow i use and alot) to think your older than me :p lol,,,,,,

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 150 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 3 minutes after post)

How about if we were all, everybody in the whole wide world, were to flush all the toilets in the world at the same time. Would that empty the oceans out?

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DoubleGin19 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 85 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 6 minutes after post)

littlenick,,,,,people say i say weird things,,,,,but do you actually listen to yourself????? or do you just catch bits and pieces ? lol

and that sounds so boring!!!!

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skyy offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 23 minutes after post)

I wasnt taking you seriously at all its all fun and games :)

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