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Im in love with this guy who doesnt love me back…

I didnt want to admit it but now that i did he doesnt even talk to me anymore… and i tried to add him to myspace…he adds everyone…but he didnt add me,,,i feel depressed what do I do?

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kittysecretar offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 minute after post)

Forget him. He doesn’t feel the same and if he’s going to be that much of a douche, it’s his loss.

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1 year ago (2 minutes after post)

i tried…but you know its harder than it seems…

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CrimsonSaku offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 minutes after post)

If you were friends before, maybe you should confront him and say like, “Just because my feelings became more doesn’t mean anything changed, so why can’t we still be friends?”

Otherwise, give him some space… I told my friend i liked him a few months ago and we’re not friends anymore. Everytime i try to confront him, it doesn’t work. So hopefully you’re better off than me.

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dimmingstar1376 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (8 hours, 14 minutes after post)

i was in love with a guy for about 5 years and he never knew and still doesn’t i’ve done my best to get over him completely but it truely is about impossible because as a girl you will always remember your first crush first date first love just about first everything especially when it comes to guys and relationships. confront him and maybe not being his friend on myspace is a good thing it gives you space and the more space the bit easier it is. go out with other guys it will take you head off him it will make you question whether he was worth it and your reason behind falling in love with him. me i was vulnerable and still am and falling love with everything giving it high expectations setting myself up for pain and i haven’t been able to stop dont be like me it truely isn’t worth it hope that helps

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lexlexbabies offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 7 months ago (5 months after post)

hunii ii kno exactly how you feel…i love this guy &&nd ii kno he doesnt love me back….well idkk cuz sometime he act like…we use to be good friends but we started to love eachother &&nd things were goin great but ii messed up &&nd let him ago while he was still hurting &&nd ii regret what ii did…but hunni live by this quote &&nd never forget it;; if you lose something and it doesnt come back it wasnt your but if it comes back it was always yours…..but yeaa give him some space &&nd jus stay your self &&nd dont stress cause he is not the only one who you are going to lovee…iim telling you this &&nd iim only 13=]

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jail offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (5 months, 1 week after post)

im in love with a guy who doesnt like me 2 its really hurts me cause it likes my friends and he want me to get their number for him even though i said i love him

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cjr_201 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (7 months, 1 week after post)

im in a similar situation as you..iv’e liked this guy for a while, and i finally had the guts to tell him..eventhough he is a really good friend of mine, i did it. after i did so, things were a little akward for about a week, but then i confronted him of being distant. he said that he didnt feel like things were any different, and after that, things were fine. well at least for a few weeks..it was our grade 8 graduation and we had a dance after..we danced, but only because one of my good frineds told him to. it made my night! we danced to the song no one by alicia keys:). then a few days later, we were all invited to a grad party at a friends house and i was having a great time, except for the fact that 3 girls, one being my friend, were all over him, ALL NIGHT! i was soo upset and i finally got the guts to ask him to dance..and we did but it wasnt very good cause the whole time, he was complaining about mosquetoes..anyways, its been a few weeks since then, and last night i asked him if he had ANY feelings for me, or if he just thought of me as a friend. and he replied, ‘as a friend’..so dont worry hun, your totally not alone here. let me know how things are going now :)

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dianeest_1 offline Verified User (2 months, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (9 months, 3 weeks after post)

honestly its so hurt….
but i think much better if u are going to move on to ur life ang go with some one else it cn help u to forget him

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