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….um im not 16…im 14 but my friend moved out when she was 16…she got an emancipation proclimation (i think thats what its called google it) anyways I guess she was pretty succesful…she got a job and rented a small apt…with a roomate…however i dont think its the best start…because you start so low its really hard to climb up you know? what about college or something …if you move out so young nothing is ever guaranteed…as long as living in your house is that bad though…i guess its ok . my friend moved out because her dad was abusive…idk

Life is expensive! You’re too young! I would try to put some money together until I was 18! I moved out when I was 18 but I had some real tough times and still do to this day. I’m trying to make it on my own but sometimes is very hard. Good luck.

Are you being abused? If so you need to talk to someone at school or another family member you trust. If that’s the case something needs to be done about it immediately. If not, and you are just going through the normal stages of a teenager, I would suggest being grateful that you have a home and an opportunity to grow into maturity before you’re thrust into the real world. It’s much harder than you could even imagine to live on your own. Don’t rush to grow up!

Do you think that if something were physically wrong with you your mother would abandon you? We all get the life that’s given to us, and sometimes that includes things that aren’t all that pleasant. If you love your mother and you can recognize that she is going through a sickness, the best thing you can do for her and for yourself is to be as supportive as you can.