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paxtonj68

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i am a single parent of two boys i am very proud of. their mother recently chose drugs over us. now we are in a financial crisis. behind on mortgage payments, no food in house most of the time. the kids has not seen their mother but that may be a good thing with her state of mind. she apperently was turned on to drugs from people she worked with. either way are family is going down. emotionaly and financialy. my children have to have these holidays without their mother and that is sad. you know the youngest is woried about his mom and confused. cant afford a loan and this is so embarrasing but is there a orginization or anybody that can help financialy. heard a saying. never withhold goodness from people who deserve it when it is within your power to change it. god bless. and good luck to all.

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babiii_jad 4 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (5 minutes after post)

are you the one who does drugs???

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Zo #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (7 minutes after post)

I know there are charities in cities, and churches usually help.

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babiii_jad 4 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Yah.
you could join one of them.
anything to hlp uyour children

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yalo 0 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (21 minutes after post)

sounds like the biggest thing is really the emotional hurt, if you can get some support for that then any practical problem can always be dealt with. I think Zo’s suggestion to go to your local church for some support is a good idea. They won’t give you money (I don’t think) but providing they’re good people (and if they’re not try another one and don’t be put off!!!) they will listen to your woes and that should really help a lot. So sorry for your trouble. Sometimes life is just hideously difficult but you are stronger than you know. The important thing is to find someone to listen to you and to make time to listen to and love your boys. Sending you love and light. The practical stuff will fall into place if you trust that it will.

Help me with: my husband suffers from anxiety and I am afraid of spending my life constantly having to reassure him and getting ground

paxtonj68 0 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (29 minutes after post)

thanks for all suggestions. some times the worst crosses a mans mind.(easy way out so to speak) but the thought of my children stops those thoughts.and no we do not do drugs at my house that is why theier mother is not allowed back at our house.

khengstberge #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (30 minutes after post)

It’s up to you. Step up. Be a REAL man.

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zo3y_9 0 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (32 minutes after post)

look at all the things or w/e that will help or such search it up, ask people in ur comunity idk, do what you think is best buddy.

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paxtonj68 0 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (33 minutes after post)

have done all i can do. i will be there for my children but the financial problem i will lay in gods hands. he will allways come through. something will give.

yalo 0 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (34 minutes after post)

Paxton I was brought up by my Dad after my Mum died. It’s not the same as your situation but I just want to share how important it is that you love those kids and what a privilege you have, being their Dad. I know my Dad was depressed for years (well I believe he was) and I had a tough old time as a result but at the end of the day, the solution to everything is communication and love. YOu need some emotional support, ask for it. when you have those black thoughts you can call Samaritans, (they’re great!!) you can come on here and if you don’t have real people in your life that you can talk to, then go looking for them and you will find them. The world’s not so bleak as it feels, it just seems that way sometimes and no-one ever said it was meant to be easy. sometimes the most amazing happiness comes out of times that seem to be the most difficult. You can endure.

Help me with: my husband suffers from anxiety and I am afraid of spending my life constantly having to reassure him and getting ground

yalo 0 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (36 minutes after post)

paxtonj68 wrote:
the financial problem i will lay in gods hands.

best thing to do, good for you. have some faith, whatever god means to you, there’s some higher power out there that will take care of you when you ask for help

Help me with: my husband suffers from anxiety and I am afraid of spending my life constantly having to reassure him and getting ground

paxtonj68 0 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (40 minutes after post)

thanks for all advise. i do have good friends to talk to. but when your kids go to the refridgerator and say im hungry dad and your heart melts eyes tear up you do what you can and im at witts end. just all pray for us and god will hear us all i will pray for all who needs it. got to go for now will try to get back on soon and se if maybe i can give some good advise to someone. thanks

yalo 0 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (42 minutes after post)

take it easy Paxton and if you’re short of food I’m certain there will be charities that will help - and if you’re not a fantastic cook, see if any of your friends can teach you how to do stuff like chicken soup that will feed you all for a week and veggie stews and stuff that just last for ages and cost very little. all will be well. best wishes to you

Help me with: my husband suffers from anxiety and I am afraid of spending my life constantly having to reassure him and getting ground

fairylandus 7 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (1 day, 9 hours after post)

give this website a try
https://www.modestneeds.org/help/requ…
maybe they can help you out!
good luck

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