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You’re really pretty ^^.

Er, that’s all I got right now. Brb.

oh ok lol,,,,,,,so how are you today?????? apart from being sad of course :)

Wait, I’m getting into my clown suit……….

How about if you compare yourself to someone who is more screwed up than you are.

this usually helps me chill out…

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2A2Jt4…

Vyki wrote:
Like who?

Like me! lol XD

I’m sorry to hear you are having a bad day. Feel free to talk about it if it will help. Listening to some good music always cheers me up!

Vyki wrote:
Like who?

I just look out my window and I see a bunch of people who are on the tread mill of drug adiction-debt-work and they don’t even know it.

Well do you have headphones?

If not music, maybe a good book or watch some funny videos on youtube?

Also you can try going to bed early, a good nights rest always helps clear my head :)

well you look quite sexy, hope that helps…

I have that problem too. Hmmm. Is it a clear night there? You could always look at the stars…I’m sorry I don’t have many great suggestions lol

Vyki wrote:

Matt… wrote:
Well do you have headphones?If not music, maybe a good book or watch some funny videos on youtube?Also you can try going to bed early, a good nights rest always helps clear my head :)

I don’t ever go to bed early, I only wake up at night

Yeah! Here’s for the nocturnal lifestyle!

Also…whoa…it is on your profile! Karma or something eh?

A man walks into a Boston bar. He has a dog with him but has no money to buy a drink.

He tells the bartender “I bet you a drink I can make my dog talk.” The bartender says “you’re full of crap, and your’re on”

He tells the dog while pointing to the roof “what’s that?” The dog goes “roof, roof.” The bartender gets pretty mad but he knew he’d been had and he gives the man the drink.

But the man with the dog says to the bartender, “do you want to get even? I’ll bet you another drink that he can really talk?” The bartender says “no tricks man.” So he bets him the other drink. The man with the dog pulls out some sand paper and rubs the dog’s face with it and asks him “how was that?” To which the dogs barks “rough, rough” and the bartender gets really mad and he knew again he’d been had and he gives the man another drink. But he is angry.

The man with the dog still wants another drink and he says to the bartender again, “I bet you $100 against another drink that my dog really talks.” The bartender tells him “go to heck, you’re going to trick me again.” The man says “no trick. As a matter of fact if it’s a trick you can throw us out of here without giving us the drink. Deal.” The bartender thinks he’s got nothing to lose. So he agrees. Finally the man asks the dog “who’s the greatest baseball player that ever lived?” The dog barks “Ruth, Ruth.” The bartender grabs both of them really angry and throws them out of the bar right on their keysters. And while they are trying to get up from the side walk the dog turns to the man and says, “Do you think maybe I shoud have said D’Maggio?”

You could watch a good movie or something. I just try to take my mind off of whatever is bothering me. So games, books, sleeping, music, movies/tv, anything that will clear my mind.

try throwing your pc out the window, that always works for me..

the internet would still be there…it just wouldn’t want talk after seeing it’s friend splattered on the sidewalk.

Vyki wrote:

Matt… wrote:
You could watch a good movie or something. I just try to take my mind off of whatever is bothering me. So games, books, sleeping, music, movies/tv, anything that will clear my mind.

What about if you were really really mad?

I’d still do it, so I could cool down. The last thing I’d wanna do is sit there simmering with anger. And I’d talk to one of my close friends about it, so I could vent in a nonviolent way.

lose you internet, maybe thats the problem, too much time on the net can lead to depression, or so i’ve heard, don’t believe a word…

venting in a non-violent way is the best way to stay angry, if you really want to get over your problems you have to face them head on, if its someone who made you angry face up to them and tell them exactly what you think of them, believe me, you will fell a whole lot better for it!!!

rocketboy1 wrote:
lose you internet, maybe thats the problem, too much time on the net can lead to depression, or so i’ve heard, don’t believe a word…

I’m no professional, but I think that it is more along the line that people who are already depressed become more depressed after realizing that the internet is a poor sub for whatever it is they really need. Some keep surfing and surfing in the hopes of finding a new way to calm their internet addiction. It’s not really the internet that people are addicted too, it is a certain feeling that the medium of the internet can sometimes fill. When is can’t, people get can get upset. There is some truth in the statement, but the internet causing depression seems to be unlikely.

rocketboy1 wrote:
venting in a non-violent way is the best way to stay angry, if you really want to get over your problems you have to face them head on, if its someone who made you angry face up to them and tell them exactly what you think of them, believe me, you will fell a whole lot better for it!!!

Doing it in violent way is worse though!

well theres a fine line between violence and assertiveness, be assertive, don’t take no prisoners, plan your attrack carefully and exert maiximum damage, in a non-violent way of course :-)

Vyki wrote:
I fully intend to stand up for myself but I can’t do it when i’m angry because I take no prisoners

Maybe talk about something completely different then? Chat with one of your friends about something irrelevant to whatever is upsetting you. Maybe a good discussion will help to get you in a better mood.

And trust me, I wasn’t always level-headed lol. When I was younger I had serious anger management issues, and had to deal with depression and such. I just try to remind myself that I’m in control, not some chemical imbalance in my head.

Vyki wrote:
I fully intend to stand up for myself but I can’t do it when i’m angry because I take no prisoners

Good idea, heat of the moment stuff is 99% regrettable in these types of situations.

rocketboy1 wrote:
well theres a fine line between violence and assertiveness, be assertive, don’t take no prisoners, plan your attrack carefully and exert maiximum damage, in a non-violent way of course :-)

Stand up for yourself, don’t trash the person’s perception of the entire cosmos…unless that is necessary…

Happiness is only able to be viewed as compared to the times we aren’t. A gift to you my dear.

Learning..

I close my eyes
quietly speak the words
and in the span of time
it takes for a leaf to fall
I’m there
standing on the outside looking in
unseen by all but a few
you feel me around you
like a wisp of breeze caressing your cheek
thinking what you sense
to be just another thought
not a true life attention
unbelieving..
it can’t be so tangible
unwilling to feel or believe
what you know to be true
watching the workings of the mind
seeing as your thoughts take form
fingers working diligently
mind to pen to paper
as I watch the difference steps out
takes a seat beside you
the loving one, the caring one
I compare the two side by side
one I like and one I don’t
my head spins as I watch unseen
unnoticed..
Trying to be objective
I’m seeing what’s inside you both
seeing the you that ticks
watching for the balance
where your heart lies
vulnerabilities
strengths
but..
knowing it’s not a place for me to tread
not a place to linger
I step away
what did I really see ??
I see ??
not happy with ??
not ready for ??
What do I want ??
What do I need ??
where is the truth?
is the lesson learned so recently?
a bit unlike others
but..
as lessons unfold
do we really learn?
We learn of us..

do you like travel? been anywhere interesting?

question for vyki, what exactly is bugging you? changing the subject won’t help, in that case we might as well have a conversation about aeroplanes, ooh thats a nice poem, how about poetry lets recite poems instead…

Hmm, how about movies? Whats everyones favorite movie here, or at least your favorite one this year?

The Dark Knight was outstanding :D Heath Ledger was amazing I hope he wins an oscar.

Let’s make One! Provide a first line for it rocketboy!

Haha omg I loved Labyrinth. When I was little I went to this daycare and they have a stack of films in the back and every day we would watch one movie and someone got to pick. And every time it was my chance to pick I would pick Labyrinth XD

For some reason…David Bowie always comes up in my weekly convos. This is going to sound weird, but I have a friend, who has a rabbit that looks like David Bowie.

hunger
pain
loss
intrepid hatred
fear of failure
unknowing hell living within
wonder what will happen
nothing
nothing to live for
nothing to die for
nothing to hold on to
so hold onto nothing
say goodbye
tearful eye
wonder what not got to get
only got to get outta here
the sheer
displeasure
of unrequited hatred of being
only way to survive
just survive
stay alive
living dead
need for speed
what will happen
fade away
die one day
wake the next second
still here
still stuck
in this unreal reality
insane insanity
cling on to something
hard to let go
hard to say no
hard to explain
stand in the rain
feel the pain
try not to let go
no one will know
no seeds will you sow
no purpose will you know
so be free
and love
without fear

Rocketboy 2008

David Bowie is awesome. Under Pressure by Bowie and Queen is one of the best songs EVER

Raul wrote:
Let’s make One! Provide a first line for it rocketboy!

Nice first line…I don’t think I can follow that…

Vyki wrote:

Raul wrote:
For some reason…David Bowie always comes up in my weekly convos. This is going to sound weird, but I have a friend, who has a rabbit that looks like David Bowie.

Steal me that rabbit!!!

:D Wish I could, she shipped it back to her house two weeks ago. It’s a special breed though, I’m sure you could find and army of David Bowie rabbits if you need.

Vyki wrote:
My rabbit died, he had cheese on toast for breakfast, and beans on toast for tea then died of mixinmatoasties

LOL XD

I’ve only ever had one pet, it was a fish I won at a carnival. I named him Phil lol. But he died. I want a pet dolphin or monkey lol, but I don’t think that’s gonna happen.

ya me too, i feel a lot better as well, glad you liked it… some people say ‘lifes too short to be depressed’, but being depressed is just another way of your inner self telling you that life is **** and you need to do something about it, being creative is the best way to defeat depression, that and saint johns wort, highly recommend buying an aerosol can and spraying it somewhere inappropriate…

I would go for dolphin…monkeys creep me out sometimes.

well for example if it was an ex boyfriend who pissed you off, you could buy some red spary paint and spray it on his fancy new car, assuming he had one, you could let the paint run down the side of the car like bolld indicating that the jerk had broken your heart, thus creating something artistic, getting your own back and some fresh air while uyour at it, 3 birds with one stone, i bet you would feel better after that!!!

I don’t understand what just happened.

For my closing statements, always store dolphins and monkeys separately, just like you would toasties.

Spraying aerosol in inappropriate places is fun… maybe…or vandalism. And always buy pets that resemble David Bowie, or at least have the same hair he did in the movie Labyrinth.

Leaving Raul? Have a good night :)

As for a pet dolphin, I don’t know maybe I would live on the shore so he could swim naturally. That’s the only way I could think it would work.

And for a monkey, I’m thinking like one of those small ones like in Pirates of the Carribean XD

I used to swim with pack of dolphins on the shore, so I guess I am biased.

It’s easier than you think. Keeping it on a lead probably would not work, and I don’t think we’re talking about Flipper here. I’m going to grab a bite, be back soon.

I’m sorry you’re having a bad evening, can I help? I have a couple of 50% off coupons for a root canal shall I scan them and email you one..

Or I can send you the other half of my tuna salad sandwich by post.. I saved half of the pickle for you, :) I didn’t bite it, I cut it with my pocket knife/fingernail clippers,(handy things)..

Vyki wrote:
Would the dolphin be on a lead or would it be a wild dolphin that came up and made funny noises at you?

Just in the wild that came up to me XD.

Did you ever see the show Seaquest? It only ran for a few years in the 90s, with the guy from Jaws in it. It had a lot of cheesy scifi moments that’s why it ultimately failed as a show lol but in the pilot the guy lived on an island and had a pet dolphin who lived off the coast and would swim up and play with him.

ya women man, always sticking their noses in where they are not wanted, i know exactly what you mean, well spray paint might not be very appropriate in this case, they’ll probably think your mad and have you put away, on the other hand you could buy a blank canvas, imagine it is their faces looking at you funny and then just start throwing paint at it like a maniac, then put it up in you hallway so every time they come in thehouse they’ll be looking at it and judging it, but you’ll know secretly that it is a picture of them and they are really just judging themselves, which is probably what the problem is in the first place, they are judging you according to their own standards, when in reality the need to take a good long look in the mirror, which in this case will be you painting - genius or what!!!

Vyki wrote:
Nope but I saw Jaws, a great white would be a good pet!

If you lived on an island, then he could patrol it for you XD. Putting signs all over the island “BEWARE OF MY PET SHARK”.

if he was a “little sharky” they wouldn’t have a problem.

Maybe you could teach the shark to hold up the sign for them to read just before he takes the first bite..

well glad you like it, problems are just puzzles waiting to be solved… hope tomorrow is a better day for you, email me whenever you like for more insightful rantings

Vyki wrote:
Ah but if i lived on an island wouldn’t they meet my little sharky before they got chance to read the sign?

Maybe it’s an island within an island with a moat in between :O

of course you can’t email me cos i didn’t leave an email address, ok just keep an eye out for me, my name is rocketboy and I’m gonna change the world!!!

Well that counting thing may be a problem for a shark, he has no fingers, he would have to alternate flippers, then he would look like a seal and nobody would be scared.

J-)

Pastels or basic colors?

yes, a fleet of sharks piloted by rabbits that all resemble David Bowie!

This idea of a shark eating you before you could read the signs gave me the idea of what happened if your head survived and floated up could you read the signs. So now I’m reading random articles about consciousness after decapitation.

Some sites claim that people are still conscious for up to 30 seconds after being decapitated :O

Was it an interview with a decapitated head?

Well they say people who were decapitated prior to execution would be told to blink for as long as they could after the decapitation. Reportedly many would blink for several seconds.

Another report said a doctor shouted out a decapitated man’s name a few seconds after it happened and he opened his eyes weakly and looked at the doctor, then they closed again.

A recent one of an accidental decapitation in a car accident the witness said after being decapitated the man looked around for several seconds, making a number of facial expressions, before dying.

I say let the shark take care of the bodies, keeps the cost of “sharky chow” at a minimum, less cleanup, = no work, maintenance free sharks

I liked the Talking Heads, Once in A Lifetime is a good song.

Why brush them? They always have more.

Plus the thought of losing a finger or two if they sneeze while you’re down there brushing them, or a hand, lol..

What if you had their teeth all pulled and had them wear a bridge? You could take the bridge out in the evening so they cant bite, then you would have sharks that are just like dolphins and you could swim with them.

And if they tried to bite it wouldn’t hurt. You could bite them back to show them how it feels and possibly start a new method of shark training. You’d be rich and famous, :)

Aren’t sharks very big and strong? Even without teeth if they rammed you or headbutted you I would imagine it would be quite painful XD

I know some guys at the pub that do the same thing and we’ve all survived it, lol

Vyki, did you read my post called “nightmare”, it was inspired by my gf’s cat..

I like cats. My grandparent’s cat just passed away, she was really old like my age which is old for a cat.

no guys, sharks don’t run out of teeth. They’re not like us, they can grow as many new one’s as they need.

They have two new cats but they run and hide whenever someone is around. If I can’t get a dolphin or monkey I think I could settle for a cat lol, but only when I have the money and time to support one.

Vyki wrote:
the other used to type on msn and bash himself against the fridge :D

Was that cat okay?

Vyki wrote:
run round the house and would eat curry and drink beer (by choice) she even had funky spiky hair which was ever so slightly Bowie style. I have no pets at the moment though

May I ask where you get your pets from? I must get some of these creatures for myself.

AHHHHHH!!! I’m eating wasabi!!! It’s reeeeallly HOT!

Now you’ve made me hungry. But I have nothing to eat. And it’s too hectic out there to grocery shop. Pizzzza ordering time I think :D

There was this cool thing they had in London and New York that was supposed to be a like pretend tunnel through the ocean, so there were real-time HD cameras and screens on both ends. You drive to London I’ll drive to New York and you can show me the doughnuts lol XD

Wasabi is a spicy paste served with sushi or sashimi. Blowing on it won’t do any good. Let’s put all these together into a chocolate-doughnut pizza with wasabi crust! Now that sounds appetizing!

I threw up yesterday I’m not anxious for a repeat XD

Vyki wrote:
Oh I only have one left oops, but i will take a photo lolWhy bother drving, isnt that tunnel just a fancy webcam?

Yeah :(

I was disappointed when I found out it was too. If they had made a real tunnel that would have been awesome :D

so whats the final analysis, have you cheered up yet?

Hmm I think the sound would fade but I don’t think microphones would be cheating as much as cameras XD.

All the cool stuff is always too good to be true :(

Idk I’m having trouble thinking of a good example.

I read about this green goo that magically cleans your keyboard. But that someone said it doesn’t really work :O

I read that keyboards have more germs on them than a toilet seat.

They made fun of it on an episode of the Colbert Report. Because the study about the keyboards said that some tests showed trace amounts of fecal matter on the keyboard. So Colbert was like “that raises the question: who’s been rubbing their @$$ on their keyboard?!” XD

I’m thinking a large cheese pizza with extra cheese. It’s suiting since I’m so cheesy :P

I don’t like a lot of toppings on my pizza, some people do but to me then its not pizza its toppings with a bit of pizza underneath lol

They don’t give us garlic bread from this company unless you order it special, but they give garlic sauce with the pizza so I just dip in the crust XD

Sadly this is the only place in range that delivers. There’s an even better place down the road for carry out but I’m too lazy to go outside plus its cold.

I have wireless so I can use my laptop in bed but I don’t do it much anymore ever since I installed the loft bed. Cause I’d have to climb back down to put it away whereas my old bed I would just sit it on the floor once I was tired XD

Have you tried eBay? You can find anything online I’m sure you can find a wireless USB thingy.

Also, how did you do that where you enabled certain people to view your email on your Help profile? I can’t find the setting to do that.

Ah ok thanks :)

And there’s other online places besides ebay. A good online computer and electronics store I use is www.tigerdirect.com. I can vouch for them that they do deliver quality I got all the stuff I ordered from them in good shape.

Well I’m glad my random rambling had some good usefulness :D Have a good night try to have a happier day tomorrow :)

Compar your self to Steven Hawkins.
:)
REally Really Georgoues :)

im sorry darl im so low mself

I’m glad you’re ok now :]

Haha it did hit the popular thingy I just noticed that. Woohoo we made you famous! :O

I’m glad you’re OK now Vyki! Love ya!

We’re all ok now

ok

spanky says he otay too