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hi…

im just sad!! plain and simply unhappy,, and im truely sorry for botherin you wit my patheticness.. i told people my secrets when i was drunk.. dont know why, just build up and spilled and i really regret it!!! it kills me inside to know that they know, i just feel like screamin!!! is there anyone out there who is just unhappy? i’d love know??

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daniphantom91 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (2 minutes after post)

Hun, you don’t need to be sad. Maybe the fact that you told people when you were drunk is a sign that you need to talk to someone. Try talking to a counselor, pastor, sibling, or parent… Talking about things almost always makes people fel better.

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tricky offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 40 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (4 minutes after post)

right now i should be maybe crying and drowning myself in self pity, but hek am happy ^_^ cause i decide to be happy , i decided that there is no point in being sad, what is done is dont and we cant change it and time moves whether you are happy or sad, how dumb would somebody be to choose self pity and sadness…

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Genesis721 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (33 minutes after post)

Sharing your secrets could have been perceived as being human. There are no perfect people in this world. We all have secrets. So don’t be sad go forward and be brave about it. That’s what character is all about standing up and facing adversity.

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yalo offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (1 hour, 2 minutes after post)

awwwww, you’re not pathetic, you’re just human, like Genesis says, we all do dumb stuff, it’s part of lifes rich tapestry, give yourself a break, none of us is perfect. sending you a big smile

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myoffering2 offline Verified User (11 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (2 hours, 14 minutes after post)

I am having the same kind of day. That is how I found this site. Too many bad things have happened lately and my mind is having trouble dealing right now. I hope this goes away soon.

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dimmingstar1376 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (4 hours, 29 minutes after post)

if you were drunk they probably were drunk to so half of what you sad they won’t remember and spilling should make you realize you do need to talk to someone not by numbing yourself with alcohol but when you dry and you can feel what is bothering you so that you can feel the relief.

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little.blue3 offline Verified User (11 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (9 hours, 35 minutes after post)

wow, yeah i know how that feels, last Christmas i got drunk and blurted out that i was a lesbian to my whole family, i carried that secret with we for so long and when i new what i had told them i felt so empty, vulnerable and stupid,I’m so sorry that your feeling down feel free to email me at i> small>(email removed) /small> /i> if you want to talk.

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