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I REALLY NEED HELP WITH MY GF FAST.

OMG someone i need you help, my gf and I got into a fight (well i wouldnt really call it as a fight but maybe). She got really mad and blocked me on my aim and now i cant talk to her and i just like emailed her 4 times telling her i was sorry. I didnt even do anything to her. it might of been because i kept asking if we were seeing a movie or becuase i kept calling her kid,but i was just fooling around and i told her that, and now she hates me i bet, she takes things way to seriously but it was stuff not even bad. WHAT SHOULD I DO TO GET BACK IN TOUCH WITH HER AND WHAT DO I SAY AND EVERYTHING.
SOMEONE, MY LIFE IS RUINED

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myoffering2 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (4 minutes after post)

I am guessing you are not very old. I have been with my wife for 17 years and I still make her mad her off for no reason. If she loves you then you have nothing to worry about. She will get over it. Take it easy and wait for her.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (6 minutes after post)

screw her find someone else if you fell that bad.

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bballplayermike offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (7 minutes after post)

I’m almost 18 but i know she will get over it because its happened before but i want to apoligize but dont know how to or when.

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tumbles40 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (9 minutes after post)

dont screw her!just stop calling her kid …it prob made her feel like you thought that your better than her just tell her that your sorry and that you wont do it again and tell her that you really like her and its not fair how dhe keeps toying with your emotions

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myoffering2 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (9 minutes after post)

She will get a hold of you when she is ready. My guess is she will still act upset but you should be fine.

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myoffering2 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (10 minutes after post)

I probably would not call her “kid” anymore either!

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bballplayermike offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (16 minutes after post)

god shes really mad she wont evne talk to her friends , this is really bad

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tumbles40 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (19 minutes after post)

idk…that cant be the only reason y shes mad then what else did u say to her?

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PaDLe offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (22 minutes after post)

Maybe she’s just giving you the silent treatment. lol.

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bballplayermike offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (23 minutes after post)

shes as silent as a rock, shes not talking to anyone and i dont know what to do

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PaDLe offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (25 minutes after post)

She’ll be fine. maybe it’s just PMS. I often fight with my ex for no reason.

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myoffering2 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (26 minutes after post)

Maybe you should check on her if she is not talking to her friends either. Especially if she has a history of depression. Hop in the car or call someone close.

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bballplayermike offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (29 minutes after post)

no theres no history of depression but her dads pretty tight on her, but she really really liked her and she must of been really sad that i was being mean to her like that

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bballplayermike offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (35 minutes after post)

omg what should i do i want to apoligize to her she proably took it roughly

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1 year ago (38 minutes after post)

Stop being mean to her and maybe she will respond positively.
If you give her compliments instead of calling her kid, she might give you a chance.

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bballplayermike offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (43 minutes after post)

no but i CANT talk to her at all she blocked me and i really dont want to talk to her on the phone because i guarentee her dad already knows, not taking any chances

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myoffering2 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (43 minutes after post)

She is probably just trying to teach you a lesson then or maybe she is taking a nap. I don’t think you should get too upset about it. Go play some pool or throw some darts to pass the time. But make sure you let her know you feel like an *** when you do get a hold of her.

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bballplayermike offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (47 minutes after post)

you know i might call her on monday but i dont know how to talk to other than calling

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myoffering2 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (52 minutes after post)

Give me the number I’ll call her for you my friend. LOL You’ll be fine use the phone.

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chev.jame offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 20 minutes after post)

Chocolates certainly couldn’t hurt!

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Anonymous #
1 year ago (2 hours, 13 minutes after post)

She’s f**kin somebody else.

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Anonymous #
1 year ago (2 hours, 16 minutes after post)

No woman gets mad for no reason and wont even talk to her girlfriends. She’s obviously screwing someone else dude. Swallow hard and man up. It’s a cold world young man.

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Sasha101 offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (3 hours, 34 minutes after post)

Let her cool down, you do the same, then as Jamie says, take her some flowers or chocs as a peace offering. :-)

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Sasha101 offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (3 hours, 35 minutes after post)

P.s hold out a white flag as you cross the threshold :P

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Nearlymello offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (3 hours, 52 minutes after post)

If she doesn’t have a sense of humor, she’ll probably be hard to live with. Just saying.

I wouldn’t make too much of an effort to contact her if she’s unwilling to talk. It sucks, yes, but if she’s just being stubborn for the sake of being stubborn it’s pretty childish and begging probably won’t go too far with her just like begging with a bawling two year old doesn’t do much, either. If my boyfriend does something to upset me, it only takes one honest “sorry” to convince me to talk it out. You should expect the same respect, and treat her the same way.

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