death help: I’m overcome with grief. - Help.com

time heals some, im srry

My sincere condolances to you! The holidays can make a loved ones passing even more sad. I have lost loved ones too, and depression really sets in ten fold it seems over the holidays. You will always remember, but time will ease your pain. I will pray for that. God must have needed another angel, so he chose him. He will now forever live in your heart. Sadly we must learn to go on, and be happy. That is what he would want for you. Seek grief counseling, and surround yourself around family and good friends. This will help, especially during the holidays. Peace and prayers your way :)

I too am sorry. It made me think how I would feel if my wife died, brings tears to my eyes. Nothing will make the pain go away right now. Time will make it better. Think of something fun you guys used to do or a time when you just could not stop laughing together. It helped me after my Uncle died a couple of years ago. He always made me laugh.

“…Grief is inseparable from joy. Grief is the experience of remembering past joy as lost. But such joy is not lost. It’s right there inside you, and your grief proves it.” From the book, “Just Add Buddha!”

WillaTree that is beautiful. I want to thank you for that.

You’re welcome myoffering2-it’s a fabulous little book with awesome insight to little things in your life.

I am very sorry for your loss. There are no magic words to dispel grief or to restore a loved one. I do believe that we can see our loved ones again. That is why it is so important to live the kind of life that will both honor your loved one and reunite you with him. Of these things I have no doubt whatsoever. I pray that you will be comforted and that your heart will again be filled with joy. Thank you for allowing us to share in your grief and to lift you up at this time. May God bless you and keep you forever more!

I lost my fiance in a Motorcycle accident some years ago, let yourself grieve hon, we never forget , but acceptance will come and we are able to go on. The important thing is you have your memories and you will carry him in your heart forever. I’m so sorry for your loss, and for that of his Mother also, I cannot think of a worse time to lose a child, hugs to you both ))))))))

Thank you everyone for your kind, helpful words. After losing him last year, my younger daughter was killed in a car accident in March, a week after her seventeenth birthday. I guess life goes on, but it’s so hard.