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hi i realy wanna be emo but my mum wownt let me cut

my hair because my hair is real long but that aint emo because its too frizzy and thick ive tried to steightern it but it dont work

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Kuvri (yodaluv12) offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Kangerlussuaq, 01, GL | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

omg I thought you were going to end it at cut “my mom won’t let me cut…”

lol anyway wait until you get older and try again, or talk to her about why she doesn’t want you to cut it.
by the way, WHY do you want to be emo? in my experience, that’s not really a good thing…

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Xeno Dragon online Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Emos are lol.

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babiii_jad offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

I am emo.
me hair is not really emo.
its short, shorter than my shoulders.
and i straighten it and its bright purple.
emo isnt just bout the style, its the music :)
But as long as your not dressing like a chav :P

Try to say to your mom.
that now your at th age where your developing
your own style. And its your hair.
thats whats my mom said :)

x hope this helped

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Kuvri (yodaluv12) offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Kangerlussuaq, 01, GL | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

I was “gothic” when I was 12 or 13 and one time I got six new piercings. My mom saw and was not pleased… Don’t go that route.

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babiii_jad offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

but your mom is differNT to other mums.
my mom ed im aloud my nose or my belly dun wen im 14

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Kuvri (yodaluv12) offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Kangerlussuaq, 01, GL | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

nope, your mom is different then.
most parents don’t allow that.

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Laina1312 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

Kuvri (yodaluv12) wrote:
I was “gothic” when I was 12 or 13 and one time I got six new piercings. My mom saw and was not pleased… Don’t go that route.

Dude. My mom has 24 earrings. My six is nothing. :D

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babiii_jad offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

no.
everyones mums ar diffrasnt

anyway, just cuz your emo/gothic/mosher
it dusnt mean you defo need percings.
like i sed its about the music.
but most people if they listen to
rock music, they dress like that to.

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Kuvri (yodaluv12) offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Kangerlussuaq, 01, GL | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

it was an example… basically I was saying that the poster shouldn’t go behind their mom’s back and do the hair. I honestly have no idea what emo kids listen to and like I said I think I was 12-13 at my “gothic” stage so I have no idea what they do now either.

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babiii_jad offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

Wll .
My mom i the one who died my hair.
i didnt.
and again like i also sed earlier.
she sed it was my hair, as long as im not dying it green
or blue then she doent really care.
she understands my style and she rspects that.
tbh, my mum sed she’d rather me be a mosher, than a chav.

And to anybody who think emos always slit there wrists.
that not true :)
Its just a stereo-type :)

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Laina1312 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

Why not blue or green? lol

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Kuvri (yodaluv12) offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Kangerlussuaq, 01, GL | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

Don’t know what a mosher or a chav is.
I did think it was pretty funny that the post cut off at “my mom won’t let me cut” lol.

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babiii_jad offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

well.
not rally blu.
she means like neon green.
not yet anyway.
they wuld send me home at school :S

I want black with fushia highlights.
but ive not long did my hair purple
bout a fortnioght ago, so im gunna wait a little.

Kuvri. A mosher is a bit like an emo.
they dress th same, act the same. Except they, not
depressed. To put it that way.
They, go to gigs. And sh**t.
And chavs. Well theyre the peoplle who walk round
in trcksuits and hoodies, like mckennzie or carbrini.

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Kuvri (yodaluv12) offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Kangerlussuaq, 01, GL | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

oooh okay. must be sort of new.. they didnt have those at my high school, only emos and goths.

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babiii_jad offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

oh.
how old ar you?

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Laina1312 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

My school we didn’t have either… more like dropouts, knocked-ups, deads, druggies, and everyone else… That isn’t good, is it?

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Kuvri (yodaluv12) offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Kangerlussuaq, 01, GL | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

lol me too laina.
babiii I’m 19

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babiii_jad offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

WEell
you sou8nd like your american.
sorry if thats offensive :S

maybe, chavs and moshers are a ‘uk’ thing,

The uk is filled with chavs.
thand they hate moshers and emos.
well most of them :/

its kindqa stupid realyy.

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Kuvri (yodaluv12) offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Kangerlussuaq, 01, GL | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

yep i am american.
maybe there are some here too, idk. i dont know any highschoolers here that i could ask.

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Laina1312 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

I’m Canadian.

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babiii_jad offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (33 minutes after post)

Cool
i live in Birmingham :L

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Laina1312 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (38 minutes after post)

What’s :L? I haven’t seen that one before.

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babiii_jad offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (47 minutes after post)

oh.
on bebo.
and msn if you put that in it makes a Laughin face
: —eyes
L —sands for laugihn

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Laina1312 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (50 minutes after post)

Oh, okay. I usually just click the little faces. I can do :), :(, :P, (pi), and (peng). Oh, and :D. :D lol, I’m tired.

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babiii_jad offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (55 minutes after post)

Lmao

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (56 minutes after post)

Thanks. :) (Not gonna ask what (peng) is?)

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Xeno Dragon online Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (57 minutes after post)

If you’re emo, and happy about it… doesn’t that make you a goth?

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Laina1312 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (59 minutes after post)

I have a friend who wants to be what she calls Victorian Gothic. I guess that’s a little different. Hard for her, though.

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Xeno Dragon online Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (1 hour after post)

Laina1312 wrote:
I have a friend who wants to be what she calls Victorian Gothic. I guess that’s a little different. Hard for her, though.

For an example of that style, look up Emilie Autumn.

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Laina1312 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 3 minutes after post)

Xeno Dragon wrote:

Laina1312 wrote:
I have a friend who wants to be what she calls Victorian Gothic. I guess that’s a little different. Hard for her, though.
For an example of that style, look up Emilie Autumn.

I said that badly, ignore me. Very loud Paramore is the only thing keeping me awake right now.

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babiii_jad offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

I love papramore/
my fave band ever ;)

And if your happy and your an emo
that doesnt make you a goth, it makes you a
mosher :)

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Xeno Dragon online Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

Laina1312 wrote:

Xeno Dragon wrote:
Laina1312 wrote:
I have a friend who wants to be what she calls Victorian Gothic. I guess that’s a little different. Hard for her, though.
For an example of that style, look up Emilie Autumn.

I said that badly, ignore me. Very loud Paramore is the only thing keeping me awake right now.

Ew. That’s unfortunate. You have my profound pity.

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Xeno Dragon online Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

babiii_jad wrote:
I love papramore/my fave band ever ;)And if your happy and your an emo that doesnt make you a goth, it makes you a mosher :)

Hehe.

Xeno Dragon wrote:
Emos are lol.

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Laina1312 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

Xeno Dragon wrote:

Laina1312 wrote:
Xeno Dragon wrote:
Laina1312 wrote:
I have a friend who wants to be what she calls Victorian Gothic. I guess that’s a little different. Hard for her, though.
For an example of that style, look up Emilie Autumn.
I said that badly, ignore me. Very loud Paramore is the only thing keeping me awake right now.
Ew. That’s unfortunate. You have my profound pity.

I’m totally addicted to Paramore and snappy. Watch yourself.

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Xeno Dragon online Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

Laina1312 wrote:

Xeno Dragon wrote:
Laina1312 wrote:
Xeno Dragon wrote:
Laina1312 wrote:
I have a friend who wants to be what she calls Victorian Gothic. I guess that’s a little different. Hard for her, though.
For an example of that style, look up Emilie Autumn.
I said that badly, ignore me. Very loud Paramore is the only thing keeping me awake right now.
Ew. That’s unfortunate. You have my profound pity.

I’m totally addicted to Paramore and snappy. Watch yourself.

Nobody’s perfect. You’re allowed to be defective.

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babiii_jad offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

omg.
im gettin confused now :L:L:L

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Laina1312 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

Xeno Dragon wrote:
Nobody’s perfect. You’re allowed to be defective.

I am not defective!!

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babiii_jad offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

wat dus defective mean???

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Laina1312 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

Really? It’s… dictionary.com it, I’m too tired to explain well.

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Xeno Dragon online Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

Like I said. Lollerskates.

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babiii_jad offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

okayy :)

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Laina1312 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 13 minutes after post)

Xeno Dragon wrote:
Like I said. Lollerskates.

Lollerskates?

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Xeno Dragon online Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 14 minutes after post)

Yep.

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Laina1312 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 15 minutes after post)

Groovy, dude.

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Xeno Dragon online Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
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^_^ V

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Laina1312 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 19 minutes after post)

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Laina1312 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 20 minutes after post)

Where’d the \’s go?

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punkgirl offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days after post)

just do it who cares what she says.

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Laina1312 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 5 hours after post)

punkgirl wrote:
just do it who cares what she says.

You get/got grounded alot, didn’t you?

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Xeno Dragon online Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 8 hours after post)

Laina1312 wrote:

punkgirl wrote:
just do it who cares what she says.

You get/got grounded alot, didn’t you?

Well, I thought emokids liked that sort of thing? You know, causing themselves problems by doing stupid sh*t when they know full well it’ll get them in trouble, so then they can whine about how much their life sucks, and wallow in their own self-pity.

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punkgirl offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (6 days after post)

i didn’t i just teach my parents a leason. i really don’t care what they say. they don’t like anything that i do. im like half emo and puck but i don’t really care what people say bout me and i don’t give what my parents say

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Xeno Dragon online Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (6 days, 10 hours after post)

Lol. How did you “teach your parents a lesson”?

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Laina1312 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (6 days, 19 hours after post)

punkgirl wrote:
i didn’t i just teach my parents a leason. i really don’t care what they say. they don’t like anything that i do. im like half emo and puck but i don’t really care what people say bout me and i don’t give what my parents say

Puck? lol

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punkgirl offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 6 days after post)

who cares what people say if u want to do it then do it but don’t get caught

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 6 days after post)

Laina1312 wrote:

punkgirl wrote:
i didn’t i just teach my parents a leason. i really don’t care what they say. they don’t like anything that i do. im like half emo and puck but i don’t really care what people say bout me and i don’t give what my parents say

Puck? lol

No one gets Shakespearean humour…

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Kangerlussuaq, 01, GL | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (2 weeks after post)

i get it lol… but puck was creepy and i dont like him.

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Kuvri (yodaluv12) wrote:
i get it lol… but puck was creepy and i dont like him.

Yay!! My joke didn’t fall completely flat!!

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punkgirl offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (2 weeks, 3 days after post)

okay i just don’t care what people say i am im emo and punk somehow and i cut if u care bout ur self then u wouldn’t start cutting. i got to a point to where it is worse then before.

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (6 months after post)

Tell your mom it is your style and she should respect it because parents are always encouraging us to be ourselves then tell your mom by doing this u r being your self

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (8 months, 3 weeks after post)

i want to be emo too help me girls im from morocco send me msgz back

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (8 months, 3 weeks after post)

i want to be emo help me im from morocco woud you plz send me right back

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An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (10 months, 4 weeks after post)

just tell your mom that you reaaly want your hair cut and have a thalk with her i mean its your hair anyway.

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