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I know its lust, but i wish it wasn’t…

There’s a girl at my school who is very flirtatious and knows a lot of people. Popular, sure, but shes the kinda person that would make any guy that knows her believe that she likes him(hence flirtatious). Anyway shes very cute and knows a heck of a lot more guys than girls. Shes your typical teen girl, and is very nice and is not afraid to give anyone a chance. I keep telling myself that its my teen mind playing tricks in my head. When i am around her; i feel different…compelled to do my best, and impress her without looking foolish in front of others and i am coming to the crossroads of a big decision. Should i tell her my feelings or should i lock them down to prevent the semi-obvious feeling of lust. PS-Never had a girlfriend before…

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An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (2 hours, 26 minutes after post)

Anon, let me tell you something. Multitudes of beautiful, charming and intelligent girls sit at home alone because the guys think they wouldn’t stand a chance with her. Now, we are talking about dating here, not getting married. Just ask her out! Don’t stall, don’t mope around, just ask her out. She will either accept or decline. If she accepts, you may be able to have her for a girlfriend. If she decines, it is not the end of the world. By the way, a certain amount of lust is normal. Without it, very few people would want to have noisy, smelly babies! ;-)

Anon, let me tell you something. Multitudes of beautiful, charming and intelligent girls sit at home alone because the guys think they wouldn't stand a chance with her. Now, we are talking about dating here, not getting married. Just ask her out! Don't stall, don't mope around, just ask her out. She will either accept or decline. If she accepts, you may be able to have her for a girlfriend. If she decines, it is not the end of the world. By the way, a certain amount of lust is normal. Without it, very few people would want to have noisy, smelly babies! ;-)

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An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (4 hours, 19 minutes after post)

Well I think it’s great that you like this girl. Everybody deserves to have a love life. But, if you don’t feel confident asking her out yet, even if she is easy-going, maybe you should spend time befriending her. Get a little closer to her and have her open up to you. Then, when you feel like asking her out, do it. After all, she does seem very willing to take a chance with anyone, like you said. I have a popular friend in my school that has the same personality. She is amazingly beautiful and very good with the boys. She is willing to give anybody and chance. But anyway, you should ask her out. Like I said, I believe everybody deserves a love life!

Well I think it's great that you like this girl. Everybody deserves to have a love life. But, if you don't feel confident asking her out yet, even if she is easy-going, maybe you should spend time befriending her. Get a little closer to her and have her open up to you. Then, when you feel like asking her out, do it. After all, she does seem very willing to take a chance with anyone, like you said. I have a popular friend in my school that has the same personality. She is amazingly beautiful and very good with the boys. She is willing to give anybody and chance. But anyway, you should ask her out. Like I said, I believe everybody deserves a love life!

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