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me and my girlfriend have been together nearly 3 years

but i feel our relationship is going, we dont have the same connection we used to have, we’re argueing over stupid things, not listening to each other and seem tp control each others lives. i dont want to break up with her, i love her but i just dont no what to do to be happy again like we used to be

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1 year ago (5 minutes after post)

Perhaps it’s just over. Sometimes we use love as an excuse to overstay our welcomes. Even though you are in love that doesn’t mean that you are meant to be together. Sometimes you just grow apart. It’s messed up but it happens. I think you guys need some time apart to see what is what.

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An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (4 months, 1 week after post)

Sounds like you are flogging a dead horse.

Im so sorry to hear it and I have been going through the same thing. I hope you can be friends.

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