friends help: hi, i really really like this girl, we went camping together - Help.com

Most people would say that it depends on how serious the friend’s relationship was with her. Not me. I say, leave that girl alone. The ratio of women to men in the US is 12:1. Find someone else dude. Remember, bros before h**s.

Sometimes we do whats we KNOW is wrong for what we THINK is right…
and sometimes we our wrong and sometimes we our right… Thats life and it only makes us human

And you will never know unless you try(trust me, I’m a victim of this)

If you think that you’ll lose your friendship over the girl you like, take a step back and really look at the situation. Does your friend mean more to you than the girl you like? If you have a good friendship with this girl, it might be worth it to take a shot with her. Coming from a girl, a lot of times we honestly do not want to ruin a good friendship by getting into a relationship. I lost a good friend from trying to be in a relationship. However, I also gained a best friend from deciding not to be in a relationship. Sometimes being good friends first is how a relationship can be stronger. It’s a tough decision, but I hope you just go with your heart. As for you lacking confidence.. there is no reason you should! There is always going to be people that you think look better than you, but if this girl really is into you, then she wont care if you’re the most gorgeous man on earth or not. Personality reallllllllly can make someone so much more attractive. That’s the truth. I say take the shot, just like the comment above me.. you’ll always wonder what could have been. Good luck, I hope everything works out for you.

In the end, we all fear one thing………..

Remorse

well you never know whether your best mate is secretly gay so..

You might want to factor this into the equation: 99.99999 percent of “school romances” will fade away. On the other hand, you could very well remain friends with the guys forever.

Just something to think about.