Year help: my dad is in jailed what should i do.

nadlor

my dad is in jailed what should i do.

I need advice on what to do on living my life.I use to live with my dad .. It was good sometimes.I usuaaly got mad at stupid things that why. my parents got divorced when it was 2005. I was born in 1994.It didn’t work out because fighting and other things. So I lived with my mom for a year in 2006. I lived in the same house when i was 5. Then my momm sold it to my dad not for cheap. That was his house too but they seprated. My dad lived with his wife in loma linda and lived in a one room.They rented that room.it was small. My mom always tried to think he was bad or didn’t care about us. Cause we never fit in the room my mom always say why did he leave you or why can’t he take all you guy again. So my Dad went back to our house. My 2 brothers lived with my mom cause she didnt want them living with him. It was just me and my dad and his wife. My mom would always make problems with my dad for the next 2 years.She would want to get it her way. Like where to pick my brothers or where to drop me off. Stupidd stuff. My dad use to argue with her because he doesn’t like doing what people say to him.After the year he stop caring about everything she said like when she wanted to argue about things or she raised her voice he would just hang up on the phone. My mom is mad because she said all the things he has done to her was wrong and she should off left him. She said that it was a abuse relationship. Her excuse was she loved my brothers and me that she didnt want to break up with him. But really i know she loved him. my mom seems to minupliate people into thinking bad things about my father.He’s not bad. M mom just wants revenge. she would ****** put every little **** motherfuin thing against him. I just mad cause i got tired of it. She lies to me . She put my dad to jailed sayin that my dad molisted my sister. My sister went aganist my dad because my mom never took good care off her and she didn’t feel loved.so she goes on my mom side.to make my mom loved her. my dad always took care of my sister. even wen shewasnt his duaghter.my mom can’t stand me fighting with my brothers. But we wrestle. My mom s husband is a cop who helped put him in jailed. I lived with my cousin cause i cant stand a **** cop and a mean mom. My dad and his wife are christian.And they dont want any crap. My question is want do i do.1 Lived with my mom.2 change her mind about hurting my dad. 3Change myself into rebellious. 4 runaway. 5 killed myself(which is the very last option). 6 lived with my cousin and forget about every thing that my mom has done. 9 you decide on a option.

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An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (13 minutes after post)

Your dad is in jail for molesting your sister? That would be his daughter… There is probably more truth in that statement than fiction. He’s in jail because he deserves to be there. Sorry for my bluntness.

Should you kill yourself? What would that solve… anything? Anything at all? Scatch that idea. Don’t even go there.

And the reason for your parents divorce had nothing to do with your getting upset about small stuff. There were many more issues and you had no part in them. So quit blaming yourself for the divorce. If you can, move back in with your mother. She still loves you. Just don’t let your mind become as poisoned as hers is.

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An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (14 minutes after post)

You should know that about 90 percent of the so-called “child molestation” cases are brought by vengeful spouses, although no molestation was ever present. This is most likely what happened in your dad’s case.

You might want to have a talk with your sister about “doing the right thing.” If she destroys an innocent man’s life, it will haunt her for the rest of her life. Unless she truly has been molested, she needs to recant her testimony and thereby exonerate her father. You didn’t mention her age, but hopefully she is old enough to know the difference between right and wrong.

You should tell your mother that the fighting has left your nerves frayed and that you would like to have a truce called. You may get “blown off” by your mom, so expect that. If she won’t suspend her hatred and vengeful acts against your father, you might see if you could live with a cousin . . . but your mother could stop that, so be prepared for that, too.

If there is a trial on child molestation charges, you might be called upon to testify. You must be sure to tell the absolute truth and not be swayed by your mother.

It’s tough, I realize. But it won’t be forever. I’m sorry your family has broken up the way it has. When you decide to have a family of your own, be particularly watchful for behaviors that could doom your relationship. Don’t take out anything on the man you marry. Start fresh and resolve that you won’t make the same mistakes your mother and father did.

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