ok so i haven’t been feeling very…
i hate to admit it, but i haven’t been feeling very pretty…so usually im very comfortable in my skin and confident as well. but lately i have had a very low self-esteem issue and i don’t know why. i’ve tried to deal with this by thinking that it will pass, but it just doesn’t. and not to mention, i’ve almost never had the best luck with guys. and when i say never, i mean almost never. i also feel like people stare at me as if i’m something other than human or just plain ugly. that just makes my head hang even lower. i don’t know what to do anymore.
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Hey!! First cool down yourself and dont start blaming yourself.
Well…whats your problem which caused you “very low self-esteem” huh?
Do what most women do when they are feeling down and out; go shopping. Get all dolled up and hit the club. You’ll be feeling better in no time.
First your photo shows you to be a purity girl.
As for the feelings you have, they are normal and happen to everyone from time to time. The way to shake them is to change up your routine in some way.
Change something about your self; example, get a different hair style
Increase your exercise regiment
Chose to eat a bit healthier
Make these small and simple changes and you’ll feel better.
You are Definitely not ugly. So get that out of your mind and vocabulary. when it comes to men one thing i’ve learned is if you are not in love with who you are, no one can “truly” be in love with you. Love yourself first, the rest will follow!
Unleash wrote:
Hey!! First cool down yourself and dont start blaming yourself.
Well…whats your problem which caused you “very low self-esteem” huh?
i have no idea, if i wear something, i hate it, if i put my hair a certain way, i hate it..
deye’in n’side wrote:
Do what most women do when they are feeling down and out; go shopping. Get all dolled up and hit the club. You’ll be feeling better in no time.
shopping isnt really my thing, and i really dont wear make up.. its just not me..
t wrote:
First your photo shows you to be a purity girl.As for the feelings you have, they are normal and happen to everyone from time to time. The way to shake them is to change up your routine in some way.
Change something about your self; example, get a different hair style
Increase your exercise regiment
Chose to eat a bit healthier
Make these small and simple changes and you’ll feel better.
half the things here, i dont really do..
Michelle ODRAMA wrote:
You are Definitely not ugly. So get that out of your mind and vocabulary. when it comes to men one thing i’ve learned is if you are not in love with who you are, no one can “truly” be in love with you. Love yourself first, the rest will follow!
i like who i am, i really do, its just my outter shell i cannot stand for some reason..
Well if you don’t do make up and shopping maybe you just need someone to tell you how pretty you are. And you are by the way. More important than outside appearance is how beautiful you are on the inside. Make sure that too.
miss.cari wrote:
t wrote:
First your photo shows you to be a purity girl.As for the feelings you have, they are normal and happen to everyone from time to time. The way to shake them is to change up your routine in some way.
Change something about your self; example, get a different hair style
Increase your exercise regiment
Chose to eat a bit healthier
Make these small and simple changes and you’ll feel better.
half the things here, i dont really do..
So than do them
deye’in n’side wrote:
Well if you don’t do make up and shopping maybe you just need someone to tell you how pretty you are. And you are by the way. More important than outside appearance is how beautiful you are on the inside. Make sure that too.
im not usually a shy person, i love to meet new people, and im very kind and respectful. but for me its a little hard to show that side when im not comfortable on the outside.
t wrote:
miss.cari wrote:
t wrote:
First your photo shows you to be a purity girl.As for the feelings you have, they are normal and happen to everyone from time to time. The way to shake them is to change up your routine in some way.
Change something about your self; example, get a different hair style
Increase your exercise regiment
Chose to eat a bit healthier
Make these small and simple changes and you’ll feel better.
half the things here, i dont really do..
So than do them
i have tried to change the little things like that, but i just cannot commit to it. i kinda sorta give up.
Remove your awareness of what you look like on the outside and just be yourself!
Don’t like the look of yourself?
Then don’t worry about what’s in the mirror!
Just have fun, do what you enjoy, and be you!
miss.cari wrote:
t wrote:
miss.cari wrote:
t wrote:
First your photo shows you to be a purity girl.As for the feelings you have, they are normal and happen to everyone from time to time. The way to shake them is to change up your routine in some way.
Change something about your self; example, get a different hair style
Increase your exercise regiment
Chose to eat a bit healthier
Make these small and simple changes and you’ll feel better.
half the things here, i dont really do..
So than do them
i have tried to change the little things like that, but i just cannot commit to it. i kinda sorta give up.
That’s probably why you can’t shake the feelings you have despite the fact that in most things you like yourself.
Try to commit to these things again and stick to it. Go slow at first. You don’t need to go from no exercise to running a marathon. Instead decided to take a walk around the block every night for a while. Than increase it from their once that no longer is sufficient.
first of all you are really beautiful ^_^ , you look like a princess ^_^ …
but i think you are looking for somebody to like you for who you are on the inside not the outside that is why i think you dont do exercises and the make up and stuff…
from here on i dont know what to say :D
good luck :D
Dougie the Pisces wrote:
Remove your awareness of what you look like on the outside and just be yourself!
Don’t like the look of yourself?
Then don’t worry about what’s in the mirror!Just have fun, do what you enjoy, and be you!
thanks, but its kind of hard to just forget about what i see in the mirror. its kind of easier said than done..
tricky wrote:
first of all you are really beautiful ^_^ , you look like a princess ^_^ …but i think you are looking for somebody to like you for who you are on the inside not the outside that is why i think you dont do exercises and the make up and stuff…from here on i dont know what to say :D good luck :D
thanks, and that is really what i want, but its also hard when all most people see is the appearance.. see, the kind of guys i like arent into me because i dont look like the kind of girl i really am.. if that made any sense..
hehehe… don’t look it the mirror if you don’t like it!
That’s easy enough. I only look in the mirror once a day and that’s when I’m in the bathroom.
I’m sure its easy enough to avoid mirrors!
miss.cari wrote:
tricky wrote:thanks, and that is really what i want, but its also hard when all most people see is the appearance.. see, the kind of guys i like arent into me because i dont look like the kind of girl i really am.. if that made any sense..
first of all you are really beautiful ^_^ , you look like a princess ^_^ …but i think you are looking for somebody to like you for who you are on the inside not the outside that is why i think you dont do exercises and the make up and stuff…from here on i dont know what to say :D good luck :D
trust me that makes perfect sense to me , same whole ^_^ i just didnt want to tell you all the story that most ppl are superficial and stuff at least this is what i think… how could ppl judge what is on the outside if you really didnt have anything to do with it , how you look is not who you are, you are far more. i guess ppl are really blind, they judge with there eyes not there minds…
Dougie the Pisces wrote:
hehehe… don’t look it the mirror if you don’t like it!
That’s easy enough. I only look in the mirror once a day and that’s when I’m in the bathroom.
I’m sure its easy enough to avoid mirrors!
touche..=D..
tricky wrote:
first of all you are really beautiful ^_^ , you look like a princess ^_^ …
but i think you are looking for somebody to like you for who you are on the inside not the outside that is why i think you dont do exercises and the make up and stuff…
from here on i dont know what to say :D
good luck :D
from here you could say…
that its all well and good to expect people to like you for who you are on the inside, but that nobility does not give one reason to neglect the outside.
Sometimes we don’t think of this, but the outside shows more than just a purity picture.
It shows us the health of the individual. Who wants to fall in love with someone who is more likely to die at a early age? It kind of puts an end to the idea of growing old together. This is not vanity; its choosing to place importance on health.
tricky wrote:
miss.cari wrote:trust me that makes perfect sense to me , same whole ^_^ i just didnt want to tell you all the story that most ppl are superficial and stuff at least this is what i think… how could ppl judge what is on the outside if you really didnt have anything to do with it , how you look is not who you are, you are far more. i guess ppl are really blind, they judge with there eyes not there minds…
tricky wrote:thanks, and that is really what i want, but its also hard when all most people see is the appearance.. see, the kind of guys i like arent into me because i dont look like the kind of girl i really am.. if that made any sense..
first of all you are really beautiful ^_^ , you look like a princess ^_^ …but i think you are looking for somebody to like you for who you are on the inside not the outside that is why i think you dont do exercises and the make up and stuff…from here on i dont know what to say :D good luck :D
thats exactly what i mean, except sometimes i feel the need to change my apperance to get what i want. im starting to think maybe im just lonely..
What do mean, by changing your appearance to get what you want?
t wrote:
tricky wrote:from here you could say…that its all well and good to expect people to like you for who you are on the inside, but that nobility does not give one reason to neglect the outside.Sometimes we don’t think of this, but the outside shows more than just a purity picture. It shows us the health of the individual. Who wants to fall in love with someone who is more likely to die at a early age? It kind of puts an end to the idea of growing old together. This is not vanity; its choosing to place importance on health.
first of all you are really beautiful ^_^ , you look like a princess ^_^ …but i think you are looking for somebody to like you for who you are on the inside not the outside that is why i think you dont do exercises and the make up and stuff…from here on i dont know what to say :D good luck :D
the thing is, im not really concerned too much about my health, i mean yea i should be, but id rather have a long and happy life with someone who doesnt care how much i weigh..
miss.cari wrote:
tricky wrote:thats exactly what i mean, except sometimes i feel the need to change my apperance to get what i want. im starting to think maybe im just lonely..
miss.cari wrote:trust me that makes perfect sense to me , same whole ^_^ i just didnt want to tell you all the story that most ppl are superficial and stuff at least this is what i think… how could ppl judge what is on the outside if you really didnt have anything to do with it , how you look is not who you are, you are far more. i guess ppl are really blind, they judge with there eyes not there minds…
tricky wrote:thanks, and that is really what i want, but its also hard when all most people see is the appearance.. see, the kind of guys i like arent into me because i dont look like the kind of girl i really am.. if that made any sense..
first of all you are really beautiful ^_^ , you look like a princess ^_^ …but i think you are looking for somebody to like you for who you are on the inside not the outside that is why i think you dont do exercises and the make up and stuff…from here on i dont know what to say :D good luck :D
i guess at some point you should start caring about how you look, for most ppl that is what the most of it counts for…
Dougie the Pisces wrote:
What do mean, by changing your appearance to get what you want?
see im really starting to begin to think im just lonely.. i just feel like the way i look, attracts the wrong kind of guys for me..and thats when i do attract guys, i hardly do..
miss.cari wrote:
t wrote:the thing is, im not really concerned too much about my health, i mean yea i should be, but id rather have a long and happy life with someone who doesnt care how much i weigh..
tricky wrote:from here you could say…that its all well and good to expect people to like you for who you are on the inside, but that nobility does not give one reason to neglect the outside.Sometimes we don’t think of this, but the outside shows more than just a purity picture. It shows us the health of the individual. Who wants to fall in love with someone who is more likely to die at a early age? It kind of puts an end to the idea of growing old together. This is not vanity; its choosing to place importance on health.
first of all you are really beautiful ^_^ , you look like a princess ^_^ …but i think you are looking for somebody to like you for who you are on the inside not the outside that is why i think you dont do exercises and the make up and stuff…from here on i dont know what to say :D good luck :D
exactly my thoughts ^_^ , if you make the outside really good than you are making ppl fall in love with how you look not who you are , so basically it may end really quickly when they see another more beautiful girl , let us be real nobody is the most beautiful girl in the world if that makes sense there is always somebody more beautiful ^_^ , when somebody love you fro who you are and not loves how you look , they will love you forever , for that will never change , not even time can take ur personality away…
Ok… so what is it about the way you look that attracts the wrong guys?
Dougie the Pisces wrote:
Ok… so what is it about the way you look that attracts the wrong guys?
i feel weird saying it, but i have a thing for white boys.. and the way i look doesnt necissarily draw their attention.. i feel like im sounding so shallow right now..
miss.cari wrote:
Dougie the Pisces wrote:i feel weird saying it, but i have a thing for white boys.. and the way i look doesnt necissarily draw their attention.. i feel like im sounding so shallow right now..
Ok… so what is it about the way you look that attracts the wrong guys?
everybody is at some degree ^_^
Nothing wrong with white boys! lol
What’s your background.
I can’t really tell from your photo!
miss.cari wrote:
Dougie the Pisces wrote:
Ok… so what is it about the way you look that attracts the wrong guys?i feel weird saying it, but i have a thing for white boys.. and the way i look doesnt necissarily draw their attention.. i feel like im sounding so shallow right now..
Don’t wait for white boys to come talk to you. Go talk to them. Assert yourself.
You can’t draw white boys attention? Well you sure got mine!
Dougie the Pisces wrote:
Nothing wrong with white boys! lol
What’s your background.
I can’t really tell from your photo!
of corse, aren’t you white?
im mexican
tricky wrote:
miss.cari wrote:
Dougie the Pisces wrote:i feel weird saying it, but i have a thing for white boys.. and the way i look doesnt necissarily draw their attention.. i feel like im sounding so shallow right now..
Ok… so what is it about the way you look that attracts the wrong guys?everybody is at some degree ^_^
yea well, i just feel like if i find someone, its not just going to be anyone, i want the right one, even if it sounds like im being picky..
Indeed I am white.
And I study at a university that has so many walks of life. A lot of international students!
And believe you me, there are some beautiful senoritas there!
I have some a few inter-racial relationships happen among my friends.
Basically what I am saying is, that I am sure that a lot of white boys would find a Mexican girl attractive.
One day when my Spanish is better, I plan to travel to central and south america!
I don’t think its superficial to have a taste for certain races.
I doesn’t make you racist, or reverse racist if you know what I mean.
Its like ice-cream, everybody has their favourite flavours! :)
You can’t see it, because of the mask, but I’m actually kind of a false white. I’m American Indian, Italian, and a tiny bit Mexican also, but it is all super blanched by my German side of my family. Let me put up a different avatar.
Please do…. your V for Vendetta mask is a little creepy lol :P
Dougie the Pisces wrote:
Please do…. your V for Vendetta mask is a little creepy lol :P
I get that a lot, I think it must be why I wear it. lol. :) Some people love it though.
miss.cari wrote:
tricky wrote:
miss.cari wrote:
Dougie the Pisces wrote:i feel weird saying it, but i have a thing for white boys.. and the way i look doesnt necissarily draw their attention.. i feel like im sounding so shallow right now..
Ok… so what is it about the way you look that attracts the wrong guys?everybody is at some degree ^_^
yea well, i just feel like if i find someone, its not just going to be anyone, i want the right one, even if it sounds like im being picky..
ur being human, we all want to get the best iut of life
Don’t get me wrong. Its a great film.
But a little creepy for an avatar lol
very true, i guess its just that around here, white boys tend to look for white girls.. its so fustrating. espaecially to have to have a white counrty girl for a friend who gets all their attention..she is the thrid one on the pic with all the girls.. im the second! lol
tricky wrote:
miss.cari wrote:ur being human, we all want to get the best iut of life
tricky wrote:yea well, i just feel like if i find someone, its not just going to be anyone, i want the right one, even if it sounds like im being picky..
miss.cari wrote:everybody is at some degree ^_^
Dougie the Pisces wrote:i feel weird saying it, but i have a thing for white boys.. and the way i look doesnt necissarily draw their attention.. i feel like im sounding so shallow right now..
Ok… so what is it about the way you look that attracts the wrong guys?
of corse i want someone who will treat me right and with respect, but i am a little picky.
Dougie the Pisces wrote:
Don’t get me wrong. Its a great film.But a little creepy for an avatar lol
you look quite white to me :P
tricky wrote:
sorry wrong quote ^_^
lol
miss.cari wrote:
tricky wrote:of corse i want someone who will treat me right and with respect, but i am a little picky.
miss.cari wrote:ur being human, we all want to get the best iut of life
tricky wrote:yea well, i just feel like if i find someone, its not just going to be anyone, i want the right one, even if it sounds like im being picky..
miss.cari wrote:everybody is at some degree ^_^
Dougie the Pisces wrote:i feel weird saying it, but i have a thing for white boys.. and the way i look doesnt necissarily draw their attention.. i feel like im sounding so shallow right now..
Ok… so what is it about the way you look that attracts the wrong guys?
we all are ^_^
miss.cari wrote:
very true, i guess its just that around here, white boys tend to look for white girls.. its so fustrating. espaecially to have to have a white counrty girl for a friend who gets all their attention..she is the thrid one on the pic with all the girls.. im the second! lol
deye’in n’side wrote:
Don’t wait for white boys to come talk to you. Go talk to them. Assert yourself.
…
Raul wrote:
You can’t draw white boys attention? Well you sure got mine!
aw..haha i feel special..lol youre very cute, as are you dougie
Nothing wrong with being picky.
It helps filer out the idiots!
deye’in n’side wrote:
miss.cari wrote:
very true, i guess its just that around here, white boys tend to look for white girls.. its so fustrating. espaecially to have to have a white counrty girl for a friend who gets all their attention..she is the thrid one on the pic with all the girls.. im the second! loldeye’in n’side wrote:
Don’t wait for white boys to come talk to you. Go talk to them. Assert yourself.…
i guess im gonna have to work on some of my communication skills..haha..
Dougie the Pisces wrote:
Nothing wrong with being picky.It helps filer out the idiots!
ll..and thats always what i thought as well..
i guess its just that around here, white boys tend to look for white girls.. its so fustrating. espaecially to have to have a white counrty girl for a friend who gets all their attention..she is the thrid one on the pic with all the girls.. im the second! lol
tricky wrote:
Dougie the Pisces wrote:
Don’t get me wrong. Its a great film.But a little creepy for an avatar lolyou look quite white to me :P
Talking to me? Yeah I said that, I’m pretty pale…???
Raul wrote:
tricky wrote:
Dougie the Pisces wrote:
Don’t get me wrong. Its a great film.But a little creepy for an avatar lolyou look quite white to me :P
Talking to me? Yeah I said that, I’m pretty pale…???
you dont look very pale to me..
Thanks Cari.
Its nice to get the compliment :)
You say that around your parts, white guys tend to go for white girls.
I think you’ll find that birds of a feather is a common thing anywhere you go.
But you’ll also find that everywhere you go, there will always be exceptions to the rule. There will always be a white girl somewhere, who doesn’t mind a black girl.
Or an Asian guy who loves Latinos etc….
Aside from that there are those people in the world, who will fall for someone for their heart, soul, and personality. If they happen to be good looking, then I guess that’s a bonus.
But usually when you fall for someone genuinely, they will grow more beautiful on the outside in your eyes, because you love them for what’s inside!
Like what Tricky said earlier… there is no most beautiful person in the world.
This is true I think, except that there is a most beautiful person in the world for everyone, and that usually ends up being who they are in love with at the time!
So its different for each of us.
I say just keep being yourself, and one day some lovely guy will come along and sweep you off your feet, and if he’s white… then that’s just a bonus for you!
******** dougie for being so right, and all of you, i appreciate it.. i think i feel a bit better now. i guess its just that i dont want to wait. im a little impatient.. =)
Raul wrote:
tricky wrote:
Dougie the Pisces wrote:
Don’t get me wrong. Its a great film.But a little creepy for an avatar lolyou look quite white to me :P
Talking to me? Yeah I said that, I’m pretty pale…???
nop i mean for the one who posted this post long live V 4 Vendetta :D
miss.cari wrote:
sorry i meany “dang you”..=P
Oh…. did the site censor your words…
Were you trying to say da.mn?
haha indeed i was.. i actually never thought of putting a period in between the letters..
Yeah its really dumb. Of all the words the site could sensor it picks that one.
I think because this is an American site, and the US being so full with the Bible thumping variety of Christians, its probably considered to be a form of cussing for some people!
*rolls eyes*
Hey purdeee girl! Here’s my theory, you are usually a confident and outgoing gal, yes? Something has happened to effect that for you and it’s something you need to work through, which you will because deep down you still have that spark to be rekindled.
So you don’t attract guys, well I think it’s because you are confident and will attract people like you which unfortunately these days are hard to come by. Feeling down about yourself you will attract more guys but they will also be down about themselves, see where I’m going with this? The good ones are hard to find, worth waiting for and will come along. Just look at the attention you are getting from these fine fellas, they know a great gal when they see one. :)
miss_enigma wrote:
Hey purdeee girl! Here’s my theory, you are usually a confident and outgoing gal, yes? Something has happened to effect that for you and it’s something you need to work through, which you will because deep down you still have that spark to be rekindled.So you don’t attract guys, well I think it’s because you are confident and will attract people like you which unfortunately these days are hard to come by. Feeling down about yourself you will attract more guys but they will also be down about themselves, see where I’m going with this? The good ones are hard to find, worth waiting for and will come along. Just look at the attention you are getting from these fine fellas, they know a great gal when they see one. :)
aw..*blushes* ha..thank you so much, and i completely understand where you are coming from. i would have never thought of it that way..
miss_enigma wrote:
Hey purdeee girl! Here’s my theory, you are usually a confident and outgoing gal, yes? Something has happened to effect that for you and it’s something you need to work through, which you will because deep down you still have that spark to be rekindled.So you don’t attract guys, well I think it’s because you are confident and will attract people like you which unfortunately these days are hard to come by. Feeling down about yourself you will attract more guys but they will also be down about themselves, see where I’m going with this? The good ones are hard to find, worth waiting for and will come along. Just look at the attention you are getting from these fine fellas, they know a great gal when they see one. :)
it all makes sense now, you know, me and you ;)
^_^
I don’t attract guys too. Trust me, I know how you feel! Sometimes I really hate looking at myself and I really think that nothing in my wardrobe suits me.
Well, I think it’s because of my besties,.. They’re all so tall, and pretty and they’re the guy magnet. I still happy with myself though, I don’t mind being the geek. :D
haha..i hear ya.. i have a counrty girl for a friend and she attracts all the guys i like, and she has a bf.. it annoys me.. but i try not to let it bother me..
Yea. Don’t be bothered. I don’t mind not having bf though. I dont want to commit to a relationship now. :D Enjoy life while you can!!!
I used to be bothered when I wouldn’t attract people either, but I’m starting to think maybe it’s a good thing. I’m a bit of a hopeless romantic I believe that the person you are meant to be with will love you as much as you love them. So if these people aren’t attracted to you take solace in that maybe just none of them are right for you.
Besides, there are attractive qualities in every person, if they aren’t seeing that then they are blind.
And you do not look ugly to me so don’t think like that :)
well thanks, i appreciate it. and i totally agree with you. im just a litle self-concious of myself, if thats how it’s spelt. especially because people tend to judge on looks..
PaDLe wrote:
I don’t attract guys too. Trust me, I know how you feel! Sometimes I really hate looking at myself and I really think that nothing in my wardrobe suits me.Well, I think it’s because of my besties,.. They’re all so tall, and pretty and they’re the guy magnet. I still happy with myself though, I don’t mind being the geek. :D
If they are tall and pretty, no offence to them, but chances are the are the ’shallow guy magnet’!
So i think, if you’re as awesome a person as you sound. Kind, intelligent, etc
There’s no reason why you can’t be the ‘non-shallow’ guy magnet! :)
lol. Not really. But I always get better grades than them and they’ve always been in and out of a relationship.
And I don’t mind not being a guy magnet. like what miss cari said, people tend to judge people by how they look and what’s make it worse, I gained weight because of overeating!! Haha. Are you refering to me dougie?
if you’re refering to me dougie, thanks, but if i am a ‘non-shallow’ guy magnet, none of them must be brave onough to come and talk to me. because even for now, id like that.
and thw eight thing, its good to watch weight, but im more concerned about finding someone who loves me for me. because whether they like it or not, i love to eat. i love it, love it, love it! and i dont want anyone im going to be with treting me any different because of it.
I know. I love to eat too!!! I didn’t really care about the weight thingy but now I don’t look good in my tshirt and jeans so, I think I have to do something about it. :D
I love this site!!
well, what can i say? food is like, my best friend..lol
i love it too!
PaDLe wrote:
I know. I love to eat too!!! I didn’t really care about the weight thingy but now I don’t look good in my tshirt and jeans so, I think I have to do something about it. :D I love this site!!
miss.cari wrote:
well, what can i say? food is like, my best friend..loli love it too!
hey girlz looking hot ;)
a little gym workout will do the trick no worries ^_^
like padle said just live ur life , i think life is more than just a relationship, relationship is part of life , but not life itself , go on living your life and enjoy it, make the best out of what life throws at you…
Guys shouldn’t be too picky about a girl’s weight. Many seem to only be interested in super-skinny super model type girls lol.
I don’t think anyone’s body needs to be perfect, it’s true it’s what’s on the inside that counts. But it is also important to not let weight get too excessive because it can lead to severe health problems. I am lucky I have high metabolism so I stay naturally skinny despite eating bad lol, but I know that will run out when I get older so I better start saving for that gym membership XD
haha nice!
yea thats the one thing that frustrates me. its when guys tend to go for girls with skinny waists. i mean, im not the skinniest person, but i know that taking care of myself is impartant too. sadly, i dont have a high metabolism, so i do gain weight, but what sucks is, my weight fluctuates. i gain, and lose, gain and lose.
there was this really nice comedian was talking about this stuff he went something like that :
what’s up with girls getting so skinny that if i touch her she will break , i want a girl that i can touch , i want a girl that i can hold , a girl with those nice curves etc. i think you get the pic :P
lol… but eating too much will make me out of the curves because I dont have high metabolism too.
thanks for the compliment tricky!
tricky wrote:
there was this really nice comedian was talking about this stuff he went something like that :what’s up with girls getting so skinny that if i touch her she will break , i want a girl that i can touch , i want a girl that i can hold , a girl with those nice curves etc. i think you get the pic :P
THATS ME! lol..jk but yea, i dont see why its a big deal to be curvy..i love mine!
PaDLe wrote:
lol… but eating too much will make me out of the curves because I dont have high metabolism too. thanks for the compliment tricky!
miss.cari wrote:
tricky wrote:THATS ME! lol..jk but yea, i dont see why its a big deal to be curvy..i love mine!
there was this really nice comedian was talking about this stuff he went something like that : what’s up with girls getting so skinny that if i touch her she will break , i want a girl that i can touch , i want a girl that i can hold , a girl with those nice curves etc. i think you get the pic :P
everything over is not good not even medicine ^_^ , you just have to keep balance plz dont be so skinny that when you fall you will not walk again :D
eat and go to the gym , gym is really nice you make friends and stuff ^_^
no matter what remember to enjoy life :) no matter if you decided to be sad or happy time moves on , so why decide to be sad :D go crazy :D enjoy life :D no barriers ^_^ break free ^_^ enjoy this beautiful world ^_^
beautiful girls i got to go now take care of urself have a nice day
Enjoy one thing
Enjoy it All
^_^
I know and I am going to travel the world when I have enough money! haha. I don’t really care what people say about me. Part of the thing that makes me lack of my self-confidence is because I’m very short. I’m only 4′9 :D
PaDLe wrote:
lol. Not really. But I always get better grades than them and they’ve always been in and out of a relationship.And I don’t mind not being a guy magnet. like what miss cari said, people tend to judge people by how they look and what’s make it worse, I gained weight because of overeating!! Haha. Are you refering to me dougie?
Ummmmm, if by referring to you, you meant being a ‘non-shallow-guy’ magnet. then yes.
I wouldn’t wish it open any nice girls to attract idiots!
And i think its great that you get good grades!
Keep it up!
Get a friend to set you up with a guy :)
like really your pretty. but kind of annoying me cause your not taking any advice. whats the deal?
feel bad for me..i constanly eat but im in the seventh grade and weigh 75 lbs.!!! i dont get it…people think im anerexic or however you spell that (:
thank you…but how am i not taking your advice? what should i do?
and my cousin is in college and weighs 95 pounds. she isn’t sick or anorexic..however its spelled.. she just has reall fast metabolism. and she eats, literally 6 to 7 times a day. and never gains weight.. so don’t be discouraged, and don’t listen to other people. they don’t know anything about you…
thank you (: and i always feel pretty after i get my eyebrows waxed
haha.. hint hint? i know my eye brows are thick. but i don’t want them any thinner. i get it a lot, and usually it just discourages me.
and i don’t think you meant it in any mean way, but i’m just pointing it out…;)
sorry if i offened you..but my eyebrows are like that two!!
hahaha, well when im not feeling pretty i take a hot bubble bath or i dance! (:
oh you didn’t offend me. no worries..
i love bubble baths but i never take them. and believe it or not. i dance around the house so much, i annoy everyone with it sometimes. haha. that or i just go outside and do cartwheels and splits, and flips and stuff, just so i dont lose my touch..haha
hahaha..do you have any pets?
yes. i have a dog..buddy, i love him! he keeps me company when im feeling down… how about you?
yeah..i have a dog too! her name is nala. what type of dog?
he’s a chaweenie.. basically a mutt… he’s half chihuahua and weenie dog…XD..
and yours?
i have a pitbul
i love them too! hahaha most people think their mean…their really not
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