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My brother is the most Iresponsible , annoying , stupid person on this earth. first of all he breaks curfew again my mom is already not speaking to him and neither is my dad, when i try to talk to him he says now is not the time, he is rude he thinks he can tell me what to do since hes three years older, his friend got arrested today , i mean that could have been him getting arrested i told him to apoligize to my mom for hurting her and making her mad, he said dont tell me what to do and tried to slam the door on my foot or almost did anyway. i have had enough , he is taking his freedom for granted, and my dad is making me suffer by cutting of the internet by 10 , luckily today he forgot, no doubt though starting tommrow it will be cut of again, i love my brother but i cant love someone who is ruining his life, i cant be apart of that. my sister who i mentioned in my recent post hurt me and i cut her out of my life and my brother is next i dont need negitive people in my life, the most i will do is act civil with them if they ask me a question i’ll answer but i will not do favor’s give advice anything like that, i’ll love them because they are my blood. but they have been so cruel left me out numureous times that i dont want to even converse with them. But my mother is so close to me i cant bear that she get hurt. i tried talking to my brother but he needs a kick in the *** he needs his rights takin away but that wont happen because my dad stopped caring , my dad tried to save him from the wrong path he spoiled him and told him to keep his grades up and for a few month he did but he came crashing down… i’m upset

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zoo_baw offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (12 minutes after post)

glad to hear you’ll love your family no matter what, some people just don’t think blood matters that much anymore… in the end of the day, we can only do our best, sometimes it’s just not enough to make everything just perfect, but still that’s all we can do… just make sure those people you cared and concerned about know that you actually do care and not just merely judging them for what they have done

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miss_enigma offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (1 hour, 23 minutes after post)

I wonder what is bothering your brother that he would act out that way. I’m sorry he hurts you and your family like that…there is always a reason though. The worst thing parents can do is stop talking to their kids when they are being buggers, that’s when the lines of communication need to open wide and some tough love be applied. Don’t give up on him, as much as he is acting like a selfish you know what, he is likely going through something. That is no excuse but it may help you to not be so hurt.

He sounds as though he needs some consistency in discipline. Your parents need to step up and try not to take his behaviour personally. Give your Mom lots of love and support, I hope things get better for you all.

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Morally Ambiguous JD offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 144 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (2 hours, 41 minutes after post)

wish you all luck, and i agree with miss_enigma.

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dimmingstar1376 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (18 hours, 24 minutes after post)

i know this sounds bad but if he gets arrested convience your parents to let him stay for a few day and see if they can call in and have him seperate from his friends. its mean but needs to happen dont let you parents leave before they give him rule and take everything away from him

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