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i don’t know what to do!

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i met this really hott boy yesterday but i have a boyfriend and i think i sort of like this other boy and i don’t feel like my boyfriend and i are going anywhere this boy is sooo hott but i still quite like my boyfriend

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Anonymous #
12 months ago (5 minutes after post)

but i dont cheat

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seas light offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (6 minutes after post)

The grass always seems to look greener on the other side. You don’t even know however, If you have anything in common with him. Looks are one thing, but a small % of the whole person. I wouldn’t break up with your current boyfriend just because you think this guys hot. Break-up for the major reasons of not getting along etc. You might be disappointed with this new guy. Just think things through before you act to quickly. :)

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Anonymous #
12 months ago (13 minutes after post)

i love my boyfriend,,
but i never get to talk to him
and i was so close to hooking up with him yesterday but i’m glad i didnt
but still your right i wonder what things would be like if i got with him instead of this other boy.

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Genesis721 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (34 minutes after post)

If you are truly not happy with you current boyfriend then tell him. Discuss how you can spend more time together doing things that you both enjoy.

If he says “that’s impossible” than tell him that perhaps you and he should date other people. That way you are not cheating.

Honesty is the best policy.

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