Love help: I thought i could move on. - Help.com

Time heals all. You can’t make yourself get over someone, you have to realize, little by little that they have moved on.

I am truly sorry for your breakup. It is so painful and even though things didn’t go right we have to remember that it’s takes two people not just one to make it work.

In today’s world “of what’s in it for me” people appear to not want to hang in there when the going gets tough. If their mates have problems, they want out of the relationship fast. Perhaps that is not you but, others feel strongly about it.

I often think when I broke up with someone or them me, that this was just a dress rehearsal. That the real one, the one that I was meant to be with, is still coming into my life.

Each day, in some small way, the pain will be easier to bear. Good luck

It’s certainly not easy to get over someone as Genesis said. Treat it as though you are mourning the loss, these things take time and don’t feel guilty for being sad at times and missing her.

Try and think of yourself, what you could be to better attract someone and have a lasting relationship. Build up your confidence and look into some things you enjoy doing on your own. Once you are content and happy in your own skin you will find yourself attracting like minded people and will have a better chance at happily ever after. It’s worth the effort, I’ve been there and done that myself.

The one for you will come along when you least expect it.

There is no formula on how and when to get better after a broken heart. If there was one, then no one would come up with stories like yours and mine.

Acceptance. That there are some things that cannot be ours.
Acceptance. That there are some things that would out fine, at the end of the tunnel.

And true love is one of them. :)

time doesnt heal anything

the quickest way and best way i think is to find somebody new…

well, first up is you need to say goodbye to her once and for all, if it really is soo hard to be around her without feeling like that.

otherwise suck it up act mature around her and soon time will catch up and you will get over her.

Time is really the only cure my friend. Though it takes a while. Chances are you will always have feelings for this person, but they will weaken with time. Good luck.

Don’t use the fact that you are a trucker as a crutch not to move on. Make it a point to talk to women when you are on the road. Make friends and call them from the road. Sooner or later you’ll have women in difference cities. Step out of your comfort zone and you’ll stop thinking about your ex wife. It seems like you think about her because you don’t have anything else occupying your time.

If the road is what is getting you think, my old man is a trucker, he always takes these old radio shows and books on tape with him while he drives, told me it really keeps him occupied.

I also agree with sickof /\ get some of those roadside diner girls numbers!