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Biggest fears, biggest regrets…

I thought I’d give myself and others the option to talk about their biggest fears and regrets. I know I have a lot of them..^^

Go ahead and talk freely.. Post it anonymously if it helps you. We’re all here to help defeat eachother’s fears, right?

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509Leo offline Verified User (4 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Honestly my biggestfear is being alone forever not finding anyone else to share my life with(again as im divorced).

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rtp offline Verified User (6 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (9 minutes after post)

my biggest fear are needles i really hate them. regrets i have tons but if you think about it if we dont make mistakes we will never learn…

how about you buecherwurm80

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HeavenlyDemonic offline Verified User (4 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (13 minutes after post)

my biggest fears are dying alone, being rejected, not being succsessful, well, being hated in general.

My biggest regrets would be letting myself grow to be so overweight, backing out at the last second when I was commiting suicide (for the second time)…

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rtp offline Verified User (6 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (17 minutes after post)

buecherwurm80 wrote:
my biggest fears are dying alone, being rejected, not being succsessful, well, being hated in general.

My biggest regrets would be letting myself grow to be so overweight, backing out at the last second when I was commiting suicide (for the second time)…

well overweight is a problem that can bo solved dont you agree ?

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HeavenlyDemonic offline Verified User (4 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (22 minutes after post)

It’s not like I never tried that. I lost weight, but then I get frustrated and I put it all back on again. I eat uncontrollably when I’m upset and I don’t know what to do about that..

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rtp offline Verified User (6 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (23 minutes after post)

buecherwurm80 wrote:
It’s not like I never tried that. I lost weight, but then I get frustrated and I put it all back on again. I eat uncontrollably when I’m upset and I don’t know what to do about that..

i see , i think maybe you should find urself something else to do when ur upset like a hobby , running maybe , or walking in the park or something… hit the gym when ur upset and get the hell out of sports :D

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An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (40 minutes after post)

My biggest fear is my future. I know it may sound weird but when I think about it, I have to get good marks in my HSC otherwise I will not get a good job/the job I want. I think about todays society and how it is being destroyed but there is no one to blame it on but ourselves. I think about the rising cost of living and future technological advances; will they be good, or bad for us. I think about how everyone is killing. What is it all for? That is my biggest fear.

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HeavenlyDemonic offline Verified User (4 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (1 hour, 14 minutes after post)

That really is terrifying. And that’s partly what I mean with not being successful. It’s like not being able to afford anything you know, or not reaching my goals, or having to work with something I don’t like because my grade weren’t good enough to get me into the college I want… Ugh it’s all so frustrating…

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Mez offline Verified User (4 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (1 hour, 16 minutes after post)

People always tell me I am only young and I have amy whole life ahead of me but at school is when you build the base blocks for the rest of your life. It annoys me when people say don’t worry. I need to worry because my life will be hell if I don’t…

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rtp offline Verified User (6 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (1 hour, 19 minutes after post)

buecherwurm80 wrote:
That really is terrifying. And that’s partly what I mean with not being successful. It’s like not being able to afford anything you know, or not reaching my goals, or having to work with something I don’t like because my grade weren’t good enough to get me into the college I want… Ugh it’s all so frustrating…

what is done is done, the past is the past all you have is the present , whenever you decided you can start a new chapter of your story , remember it’s all in your hand…

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DrAwesomeMcCool offline Verified User (4 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (1 hour, 45 minutes after post)

Fear: my fear is heights.

Regret: and regret is not finishing high school.

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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (4 hours, 21 minutes after post)

My biggest fear is not to be usefull anymore.
Mi regret is not to study before.

I Agree with you tricky.

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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (4 hours, 54 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
My biggest fear is of ghosts/or anything supernatural. Sometimes I get into the state where I can’t be alone, and have to have all the lights on. Sometimes I end up crying because I’m so scared. :(

Well, exists error spirits that are always messing around. The trick is not to let them in. You can envolve yourself in golden light. Imagine a light that surrounds you and protects you. That is the christic light. I extract all this from a group of Bs. As. Argentina that says that exists spirits in plane 2 (error ones), in 3 (also error), 4 (master spirits), 5 (enlighted spirits), 6 angels, and so on. We are in plane 1. The group is called Elron group.

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Chunkymoves offline Verified User (4 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (4 hours, 59 minutes after post)

This isn’t about anyone here, but my own private angst.

biggest fear: expossing my biggest fear and having some **** use it to control me.
regret: not moving out of home when I was 15.

wow, I sound so angry. But I had such a lovely childhood…
better post that anon.

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Chunkymoves offline Verified User (4 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (5 hours, 1 minute after post)

well, that didn’t work did it. LOL. Well its a good thing I realised a while back that…

“No one cares”

( note: not a cry for people saying they care, but a realisation of freedom)

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¡ʎuɐɟɟıʇ offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (9 hours, 37 minutes after post)

My biggest fears are:

1. Dieing before I accomplish what I want to do in life. (getting married, having kids, etc.)
2. Losing the people that I care about most.
3. Having my dad pass away before I get married. (I will be devistated if he won’t be there to give me away.)
4. Getting lost. (Yes, I know that’s weird ..but I’m terrifed of it.)
and 5. Not being succsessful.

I think my biggest regret would be not ‘living’. There is so much more I could do ..but I don’t. I guess I regret wasting all that time. Not taking risks, not challenging myself..

As far as the past mistakes I’ve made, I don’t regret any of them.

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HeavenlyDemonic offline Verified User (4 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (11 hours, 5 minutes after post)

♥ tiffany! wrote:
My biggest fears are:

I think my biggest regret would be not ‘living’. There is so much more I could do ..but I don’t. I guess I regret wasting all that time. Not taking risks, not challenging myself..

It’s never too late to start living! Take some time off every now and then and do something you’va always wanted to do. Challenge yourself or travel and relax. It’s never too late to start living!!

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HeavenlyDemonic offline Verified User (4 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (11 hours, 8 minutes after post)

chunkymove wrote:
well, that didn’t work did it. LOL. Well its a good thing I realised a while back that…

“No one cares”

( note: not a cry for people saying they care, but a realisation of freedom)

I know exactly how that feels. Yet I have to ask, how is that good?? The only way that that has effected me now is that I can’t trust people and that I feel worthless and missunderatood all the time, which leads to depressions I sometimes can’t get out of for weeks. How was that a god thing for you?

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Chunkymoves offline Verified User (4 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (4 days, 3 hours after post)

answered in shout…

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HeavenlyDemonic offline Verified User (4 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (5 days, 8 hours after post)

yeah, thanks a lot for that.

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