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Michael Leibman offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Littleton, CO, US | 12 months ago (16 minutes after post)

its ME, its MY BODY, my BRAIN, my THOUGHTS,

Yes, to say that the willfull action of your being is a disease would be condemning your actual life, disrespecting a fellow human. So I won’t do it. On the other hand if you go to a doctor, what they do is give you a diagnosis and a prescription for treatment. So… it may feel uncomfortable to be infected with a diagnosis, but somehow it happened to you (if I read right), and I guess you can treat it like anything else in life, try to relate to it in a way that makes you as happy as possible until you run out of energy and have to sleep for 11 hours repeat, etc.

(um sorry if this aren’t the best sort of words, I’ll just take it all back and say “hi”, hope you get some more intelligent replies :)

seas light offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (17 minutes after post)

If you suspect you have a Bi Polar condition, well it simply is what it is. Many people suffer from this condition. Nothing to be ashamed of. The proper diagnosis can determine the correct treatment that will enable you to live a happy and productive life. My friend was the same way. Suffered unnecessarily for quite awhile. Finally they agreed to see the DR. and was given a medication called* BUSPAR* Their behavior is now like day and night. Very happy and so glad they finally sought treatment. You have to decide this too for yourself. Either continue to suffer and be miserable, or see your DR. and see what can be done to correct this condition. Hope you do the later. All the best to you. You have nothing to loose but your misery :)

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Morally Ambiguous JD offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 126 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (55 minutes after post)

look. visit your GP… he/she is a professional, they deal with people with BI-Polar disorder all the time… its a common disorder. your GP is the best suited to give you advice and treatment not the internet.

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Genesis721 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (1 hour, 11 minutes after post)

Who diagnosed you with Bi-Polar? You could have ADHD or ADD. Proper diagnoses is the key to getting the right help.

There are many doctors who will recommend psychologists because they will help you patterned your life so that the bi-polar highs and lows are minimized. It isn’t just medication, there are also life patterns that can be practiced to help you remember and stablized your thought patterns.

I have a girlfriend who loves black and lime green. So painting your room black is not out of the norm. Her bedroom is black with lime green accessories.

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chunkymove offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (4 hours, 2 minutes after post)

Dr Awesome McCool wrote:
look. visit your GP… he/she is a professional, they deal with people with BI-Polar disorder all the time… its a common disorder. your GP is the best suited to give you advice and treatment not the internet.

It’s nice idea, but doc’s are just people who have been put through specific training and often are too constrained to be able to properly help. I spent two days trekking recently with a doctor who had won award all through her training and practice, and she was taking time out because she was concerned about the increasing number of patients that she was trained to treat with 15 mins consults and drugs, but she felt that it wasn’t the best path for them.

“to say that the will full action of your being is a disease would be condemning your actual life” (Michael Leibman) Some docs can take the you out of the equation, and just see it as just chemicals. While this may be true, from the same perspective all of humanity is just collections of pointless chemicals. In my not so humble and well researched opinion, a correct diagnosis is useful in that it can allow certain meds to help you short term, and hook you up with a good councillor or support group longer term, but the best solution is stuff like…

regular food, sleep, exercise, connection - and something you want to do.

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chunkymove offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (4 hours, 5 minutes after post)

Genesis721 wrote:
Who diagnosed you with Bi-Polar? You could have ADHD or ADD. Proper diagnoses is the key to getting the right help.

There are many doctors who will recommend psychologists because they will help you patterned your life so that the bi-polar highs and lows are minimized. It isn’t just medication, there are also life patterns that can be practiced to help you remember and stablized your thought patterns.

I have a girlfriend who loves black and lime green. So painting your room black is not out of the norm. Her bedroom is black with lime green accessories.

you got a link to “life patterns” that are helpful for bi-polar. After my above rant, I think I could do with some myself :-)

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merryhappy offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (11 hours, 33 minutes after post)

i dont have enough time to make a proper response to your comments; i’d just like to say thanks for answering and i was diagnosed by my psychologist who suggested i see a psychiatrist and be properly medicated; i didnt know much about it so i went to the internet and felt cornered.

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merryhappy offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (11 hours, 35 minutes after post)

oh, and its not that i painted it black was the problem, it was that i had no memory of doing so. i woke up a couple of days ago and noticed, and dont recollect it happening.

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Michael Leibman offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Littleton, CO, US | 12 months ago (15 hours after post)

chunkymove wrote:
you got a link to “life patterns” that are helpful for bi-polar. After my above rant, I think I could do with some myself :-)

Here you go …. http://www.google.com/search?num=100&…

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chunkymove offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (1 day, 2 hours after post)

Michael Leibman wrote:

chunkymove wrote:
you got a link to “life patterns” that are helpful for bi-polar. After my above rant, I think I could do with some myself :-)

Here you go …. http://www.google.com/search?num=100&…

LOL - that’s usually my line. Thanks.

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what’s the point of a diagnosis, seriously. i just spent 2 hours surfing the web looking up bipolar disorder, trying to find someone i could talk to, see if maybe this is where my chemicals fall into place, but reading all their **** on livejournal and all their websites, it all just sounds so ******* selfish, and whiny. all the traits i hate in myself are exemplified in those people, and just made me feel trite, and cheap. i want help, but i dont know what kind of help i want. i dont want to be thrown into a prescription pill bottle, i dont even really want to talk about what im going through. i dont want to be one of those people who just ******* ***** and complain about their lives, about feeling trapped or alone or crazy. what did crazy people do before support chat rooms, huh? haha.
im coming off way more brutal than i intended. in all honesty, i have nothing but empathy for people who suffer from mental disorders. i just feel like that shouldnt be me. that im not legitamite. people get sad, people cheer up, its a ******* cycle of life. when does it stop being my fault and start being able to blamed on a disease. because thats what i feel like a diagnosis would be doing; itd provide my lazy *** with a crutch. because, because, if i tried hard enough, maybe i could control myself, maybe id have some ******* self restraint once in awhile. its ME, its MY BODY, my BRAIN, my THOUGHTS, shoudn’t i be in control of them? but i cant. i have feelings and thoughts and events i cant explain; half my room is painted black, and my pockets are filled with receipts of purchases i dont remember making, with poems i dont remember writing scrawled on the backs. everything moves too fast and i cant hold onto to any of it. i dont really know what went on the past two weeks, at all, not since yesterday, after i slept for 11 hours. i dont know. i just don’t know what the point is, or what to do, or where to go from here. i’m so lost.

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