friends help: What to do?

me_bobo99

What to do?

Next year im moving schools, and my best friend goes there.
But she knows i used to have a crush on her.
Her boyfriend wants to bash me, and hes friend also wants to bash me cause he thinks im trying to make them two split up.
Also my other friends there are enemys to my best friend, and if i be friends with one the other will hate me.
Either way i will get bashed because people think im something im not.
I dont know what i should do.

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miss_enigma 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

Find people who will know you and appreciate you for who you are. Don’t let people like that get you down, it’s their insecurities. Don’t let others chose your friends for you.

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miss_enigma 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

*choose*..oopsie!

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me_bobo99 2 #
Rosevale, 06, AU | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

miss_enigma wrote:
Find people who will know you and appreciate you for who you are. Don’t let people like that get you down, it’s their insecurities. Don’t let others chose your friends for you.

i know what you mean .
but i still want to be around my friends and not have any worries.

miss_enigma 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

Well that’s sorta impossible if they like drama dearie, you may have to sacrifice that if you want an end to it and a peaceful existence.

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miss_enigma 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

And stop doing that to my mother!!! lmao!! hehehe

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Morally Ambiguous JD 121 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (38 minutes after post)

god, just get your friends BF and talk to him, tel him your not after his GF your just friends. have her their too… if you get bashed up then thats life isn’t it.
hes just proven hes an insecure muscle brained idiot and if his GF is your best friend she wouldn’t be best pleased with him bashing you…

or you could simply just make new friends.
whatever is easier for you tbh. its not as if your likely to be friends when you finish school and all move on.

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Genesis721 11 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (48 minutes after post)

You can keep some of the people happy some of the time. And most of the people happy most of the time but, you can’t keep all the people happy all of the time.

When people talk negatively or positively about you, that’s how they see you and it’s up to you to communicate your true self.

Once, a new guy came to our get-together and he liked me right away. My best friend liked him too. To make a long story short, he asked me out. She was very upset saying things like I went after him and made him like me, etc. etc. etc.

I told her that I knew him the length of time that she knew him. There couldn’t be any plot or planning to get him because we both met him at the same time.

I also told her that if our friendship was based on a new guy asking me out or not then it isn’t much of a friendship is it? So she apologized later.

So have to speak up for yourself. Make your intentions clear.

Barbyman 5 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (7 hours, 55 minutes after post)

I looked at the avatar ,well miss enigma what is this little fellow doing? Is he exercising?I know i’m ignorant,but please it would make my day…

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kt.loz.photogeni 4 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (6 months after post)

i love you beau
i wish we were still bestfriends
i miss everything we used to be
i miss what we were when you posted this
and im sorry i put you through that
i was just so happy you were moving to my school
im sorry i made you chose
and i guess the tables are turned
now your girlfriend wants to bash me
no matter what happens whether we stay enimies or not you no i will always love you
your the only person in the world who i want to be with
and yourr the only person that could every truly be my bestfriend
ILOVE YOU SO MUCH
I MISS YOU MORE THAN YOU COULD POSSIBLY IMAGINE
bye

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