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Well everyone was right is the fact that my ex was using me the past 2-3 weeks.

We agreed to try to work it out, but thats because his truck was broken and he didn’t have a way to go anywhere, so he was “nice to me and said ok to work it out”, so that he could use my truck! now that his truck is running again its the same he has been gone all nite… I’m fighting with myself to not get mad.. and to put all my engery into school. I want to move but dont have the money…. I will finish school and then move somewhere unsure where I believe up north somewhere!!! So I’m hoping the next year I learn to controll my feelings and how to block people out.. I hope that his truck brakes again…. and this time I will NOT be sucked in….

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Ξ.Ģäβž.Ξ offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (9 minutes after post)

happitoday wrote:
I hope that his truck brakes again….

Got a spanner ?

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iwanadrif offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (9 minutes after post)

Plug some plugs outta the engine :)
DOnt help him next time :D

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Ξ.Ģäβž.Ξ offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (13 minutes after post)

lol, I had a similar situation with a BF once. I always felt as if he were just using me for my car. As that’s all he ever did, was take my car.

Anyway, he took the car while I was working and busted the reverse in the automatic trans. Cost me $2,000 (AUD), and funnily enough, I never seen him again.

Amazing huh. Gone, just like magic…. Poof ! lol

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An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (18 minutes after post)

just hope not to see him on the road. lol :)

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happitoday offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (44 minutes after post)

Gabz wrote:

happitoday wrote:
I hope that his truck brakes again….

Got a spanner ?

YES, i do an know how to use it!! he just finish putting the rear end back together!

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pluto_goddes offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Austin, TX, US | 12 months ago (2 hours, 25 minutes after post)

hahah totally agree, play with some wires, take a hammer, etc, you get the picture.

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Barbyman offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (6 hours, 11 minutes after post)

No don’t be so mean.I know you still love him, give him a bit of space .You will and would do it again i can see it in your face ..He loves me ,he loves me not,he loves me. Go to barbyman.com listen to some music then you feel better..

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happitoday offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (8 hours, 51 minutes after post)

pluto_goddes wrote:
hahah totally agree, play with some wires, take a hammer, etc, you get the picture.

I would have DONE IT ALREADY about 10mos ago but the truck is still in my dads name and my dad would kill me for messing up HIS - my dads truck. my ex is buying it from my dad, my ex come to me with NOTHING only a lawn bag of clothes, now he has a nice big truck, a nice lal top, tools out the ears, but anyways.

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happitoday offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (8 hours, 58 minutes after post)

Barbyman wrote:
No don’t be so mean.I know you still love him, give him a bit of space .You will and would do it again i can see it in your face ..He loves me ,he loves me not,he loves me. Go to barbyman.com listen to some music then you feel better..

NO NO NO Barbyman you can NOT see that I still LOVE him, Yet I didnt but over the past 10mos and speically the last 3weeks lying to me and saying that we were going to REALLY try to work it out, just to use my truck and in the need of money… NO I”M DONE I dont wish bad, but I will not talk to him, help him in any way… I will take a LOT and I mean A LOT, but using me over and over again just to go see the other girl and get money, use my truck… NO I SO OVER HIM!!! Ican’t even seem to look him in the eyes, because all I see is a lyer, cheater, manipulaitve person.. and I “HAD” a heart of gold, but right now its black coal. I believe every thing happends for a reason and I have learned a lot in this relastionship and I’m ready to move on… I make my on realtity and I’m ready to be happy with me first then soemday meet a nice MAN…

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