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My best friends boyfriend confessed his love for me and I really fancy him to …

but hes my best friends bf and although i love him too i could never do that to her - uhh im sooo confused what to do, do I just leave him and her to it or should i allow him to dump her and get with me either way somenones gonna get hurt. Any advice?

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SarahRahRah offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (37 minutes after post)

I think you should back well off. He is obviously not that much of a catch if he is being so sneaky behing your friends back.

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pluto_goddes offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Austin, TX, US | 1 year ago (59 minutes after post)

Totally agree with Fiary Pants! NEVER do that to a friend! Its something thats just very very bad! Tell him no, he’s your best friend’s boyfriend. That if he doesn’t love her then break up with her, but not for you, because you’re better than that.

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AshleyAnemia. (: offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 1 year ago (1 hour, 11 minutes after post)

pluto_goddes wrote:
Totally agree with Fiary Pants! NEVER do that to a friend! Its something thats just very very bad! Tell him no, he’s your best friend’s boyfriend. That if he doesn’t love her then break up with her, but not for you, because you’re better than that.

Fairy Pants wrote:
I think you should back well off. He is obviously not that much of a catch if he is being so sneaky behing your friends back.

Exactly.
BIG NO NO.

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MandaDarlin' offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 day, 4 hours after post)

Back off. If he would leave his girlfriend for you, how do you know he wouldn’t do the same to you? Besides, the girlfriend is your best friend. Friendship is much more important than guys. If you get with your friend’s boyfriend, you will lose a friendship most likely.

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kh1_1 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (8 months after post)

I think you should back off and give their relationship a chance to work. If it doesn’t then you deserve a chance to see if he is that special one for you.

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