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I have a question: Is it possible to be in love with 2 people at the same time?

Because I think I am

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Mayor offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 166 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Yes. That usually happens when you start a relationship with someone before dealing with emotions from the last relationship. It always turns out ugly.

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An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (27 minutes after post)

Yes, perfectly and unfortunately possible.

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vicky_zorzoli1 offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (43 minutes after post)

Not possible if you want to call it real love. You may feel in love with two because of the possibility that you’re a)in lust with two people b)completely infatuated with the idea of two people c)trying to make your life difficult. I thought it was possible until i met the one i’m in love with. and i used to think that i would never be fully content in a marriage because i could always love somebody else, however, i realized that it’s not like that.

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An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (1 hour, 26 minutes after post)

I think I’m starting to realize that as much as I love the both of them…..there has to be one that I love more than the other. I cant love them both the same. It’s time for me to make a decision

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An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (3 hours, 23 minutes after post)

it really is… just think which one is somebody you can see yourself with down the line? who do you get bored with? who has the same values as you do? who treats you better? which one do you fight less with? who wants kids or doesn’t want kids? who do your parents like better? (even though its your choice, parents play a big role) and overall, i know this sounds cheesy, but who do you get more goosebumps before you see them?

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