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Restraining order.

You won’t get in trouble!! This is NOT your fault!!! Some creep is obsessed with you and you need to tell your parents immediately.

And then the cops.

They have enough on their minds already, last thing they need is my problems.. isnt there a way i can handle this myself? I mean other than the fact that he stalks me, and grabbed my arm once, he’s never done anything

Okay, so don’t tell them. Leave them to deal with the aftermath when he escalates, because they ALWAYS do, and kills you. I’m sure they’d rather have that on their minds.

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They have enough on their minds already, last thing they need is my problems.. isnt there a way i can handle this myself? I mean other than the fact that he stalks me, and grabbed my arm once, he’s never done anything

Do as Laina says hon, tell your parents, and get the police involved. Your parents trust me will put your safety first, If you were my daughter and you hadn’t told me I be most upset.
What if something happens to you involving this man ?? tell someone hon NOW! he is obsessed by the sound of it, dangerous territory.

No you cannot handle this by yourself.

Call the police.

You don’t want to tell anyone because you don’t want to get anyone in trouble? Ummmmmmmmm! Interesting! What could you have possible done to not want to get anyone in trouble? It sounds as if this man is blackmailing you for something wrong you did. In my case, I would have gone to the cops in a heartbeat! Unless you’re afraid that he is going to tell someone something he knows about you and it could destroy your life or your public or family image! Is that the case?

Look at it this way, if you don’t go to the cops and have something done about it, this will just continue.

Take a women’s defense class, carry around mase or something.

No, i haven’t done anything. I mean by not getting anyone in trouble because as i said, when i told a co worker they got in a physical fight, and my friend got injured. I don’t want anything like that to happen to anyone else.

I’l try and tell my parents when i next see them both i guess tho i really wish i could take care of this

Why do you not want to go to the police?

If you are living at home, your parents need to know NOW.

If you are living alone.. the police need to know NOW.

Can you explain what the problem is?

is tis place just for kids getting stalked

it started on the 9th of february this year my now x boyfreind seriously assaulted me and was arrested for it and since then he has been asking people to follow me find out information aboutt me and what he cannot find out he makes up i constantly have ad stuff moved around my back garden one of my rabbits had its kneck broken and he is now on the internet forum which i am a member whic he is now arrassing me i have been to the police and a lawyer no one is taking me seriously as they say tere is not enough evidence or no definate threats made i feel like they will only act if he kills me

hello i need help

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