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have you ever wanted to be someone else?

you see people like your friends for example going out to parties and whatever and having alot of friends.. and you want that? or see people having what seems like perfect relationships.. which you dont have.. travelling the world.. you cant afford that…
i feel like i want to be someone else.. if i was it could just be better.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (6 minutes after post)

Uhm, you know, the grass is always greener, other side, and such…

But to answer your question, yeah, but then I remember I have plenty in my life that’s going right right now that *COULD* be going wrong. I’m thankful I have that at least and work with it.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (7 minutes after post)

Yeah, I know exactly what you mean. You look at others and you see what they have and your wishing that for once why can’t it be me thats going out to places and having fun? Why can’t I be more like that?
Those questions run through my mind everyday and night.. And i don’t really have an straight answer but I DO know that everyone is their own self and in the end you don’t want to be anything that your not. Your you and thats what speical. It’s better hanging out with people that know exactly who you are. Rather being friends with people who think your something that your not People are all different and unique and evey possible way. It just takes time to accept ourselves. For me thats how I see it.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (23 minutes after post)

Yeah I wanted to be someone else…then realized I’d just turn back into me.
Life is what you make it.
I was the loser in school and in my home town until I graduated and left. I moved to a new place and was able to start over. Which was great because I knew there was nothing wrong with me and starting over was all I needed. Now I’m in my glory and people look up to me. JUST BE YOURSELF!!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (48 minutes after post)

I’d love to be Bill Gates

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (16 hours, 11 minutes after post)

I’ve always think of the same question too. If only I have lots of money, if only I am very clever, I only i am tall (i’m only 4′9), if only I am hot in everyway, and i hate the face that I’ve gained weight now (but I’m going to start hitting the gym 2 weeks before Christmas), those are the qualities that my best friends have.

When I compare them to me, I would still rather be me. I learn to accept the fact than I am not them and yes, life is what we make it. We are the one who choose the path of our life. I don’t make much money through my job and I have to pay for my school but I will still try and save some money to go travel after I finished college.

My friends loves to party and they always have guys swarming over them and it’s as if I’m invisible but I don’t think I really care because those are certainly not the type you want to be with forever (considering the fact that I don’t date people just for the fun of it).

You might think that they are perfect in every way but deep inside, we don’t know what they’re feeling. Just remember, everyone is special!! :D

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