girl help: I’m afraid to ask this girl out.

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I’m afraid to ask this girl out.

I think I fear rejection. How can I boost my morale and keep my hopes up? I think she likes me (smiles at me, laughs with me, etc.). I need some advice!

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louise 19 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

DO IT!! just ask her out.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

louise wrote:
DO IT!! just ask her out.

Pretty much..

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CosmicDebris 12 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

Rejection Sucks brother, I know. But acceptance rocks it’s worth putting yourself out there especially if you really dig this chick. Good luck homes.

Anonymous #
11 months, 4 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

when would be a good time to? i want to do something this weekend, so monday-thursday is my possibilities. how much time in advance does she need? i’m in high school, btw.

CosmicDebris 12 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
when would be a good time to? i want to do something this weekend, so monday-thursday is my possibilities. how much time in advance does she need? i’m in high school, btw.

Ask her out on Wednesday. That’s the perfect day.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

a week can be fine…

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sour.8 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

ask her
imma girl who just got asked out by a guy who told my friend that he was scared of rejection so he didnt ask me to my face…he should’ve cause i said yes. she wants to hear it. trust me. if she says no then just move with the flow. forget it ever happened cause she still want to be friends. good luck thurday btw

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Anonymous #
11 months, 4 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

why is wednesday the perfect day?

CosmicDebris 12 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

Maybe i misunderstood. If you want to do something on this upcoming weekend then ask her out on a Wednesday. That way you most likely beat the other clowns that might wanna ask her out. and it gives you 2 days to get your nerves ready.

Anonymous #
11 months, 4 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

ahhh, okay. from what i said above, does it look like she likes me? do you need more info to figure that out?

CosmicDebris 12 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

Highschool….lol, Man I miss that time in my life. You got to ask every chick out you can. enjoy it while your young brotha

CosmicDebris 12 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
ahhh, okay. from what i said above, does it look like she likes me? do you need more info to figure that out?

Who Knows. Who cares. If YOU like her ask her out. you’ll find out soon enough if the feelings are reciprocated.

sour.8 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

ASK HER OUT

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Braad 2 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

yeah being rejected is nothing honestly, if they say no, you will be over it in a week haha, just forget and move on :)

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kevinstron #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (2 months, 2 weeks after post)

dont be afraid to ask her out

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kevinstron #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (2 months, 2 weeks after post)

do not beafraid to ask her out

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kevinstron #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (2 months, 2 weeks after post)

do not be afraid to ask her out rejection hurts but so what

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thomaslanne #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (3 months, 1 week after post)

well ask her out and if she says no you have lost nowt

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keekscherringto 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (7 months, 2 weeks after post)

try getting one of your friends to tell her thay you like her but to afrade to ask her out and would you think of asking him out.thats what i did and it works grate.
good luck :)

keekscherringto 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (7 months, 2 weeks after post)

keekscherringto wrote:
try getting one of your friends to tell her that you like her but to afrade to ask her out and would you think of asking him out.thats what i did and it works grate.
good luck :)

armegeddon_200 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (8 months after post)

I’m 12, I’m in grade 8(soon to be). How do I ask a girl who is younger than me who may have a boyfriend at the time? I really really like her. She’s the only girl that I’ve liked this much. I feel like such a corny kid by thinking she’s the one, the only one for me…. I feel so lame, and I think she likes the manly kind of guys, but when I try to ask her out, I wimp out. How can I ask her out?

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keekscherringto 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (8 months after post)

i have the same feeling its weird umm get one of your mates to see if she has a boy friend and if not just slip it in on a causal talk with her.
thats what i did and she said yes i was very scared tho so good luck. :)
also the girl i asked out was younger than me so its ok.
dont feel lame and wimpy its love.im 13 so i no how it feels and if she says no its better next time you want to ask a girl out and getting over the other girl.
i use to think the same way as you did its kind of funny. lol =)
good luck mate.
if you have msn plez add me if you want some more info im keekscherrington @gmail.com.
dont put the space in my email tho ok
:]

snowy1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (9 months, 2 weeks after post)

im in middle school and i like this gril but im shy and i need help from some ppl

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snowy1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (9 months, 2 weeks after post)

im in middle school and i like this girl but im shy and i need help from some ppl

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PEISLAN #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 6 days ago (11 months after post)

YOUR GAY

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chelsiegabelett #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 6 days ago (11 months, 1 week after post)

just start saying hi and stuff like that and some day start a conversation and just ask her out

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