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Matt of rock
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is it right?

3 months ago i asked the girl of my dreams out yet she said no. since then i have been thinking about her constantly and i just cant get her out of my head no matter what i do. i have been thinking about asking her out again but im not sure if it is the right idea or move to be making. can some body help me out here?

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beyondconfuse offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

is she a close friend of yours?

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Matt of rock offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Potter Street, F6, GB | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

yer shes a quite close

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beyondconfuse offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

then maybe separating yourself from her a bit would help, so that you can get over her. if you’d like, you could tell her that you want to spend less time together for awhile, and then you create a window of opportunity for her to say something. ??

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Matt of rock offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Potter Street, F6, GB | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

ok then ill try that then…im not sure if it will work though

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beyondconfuse offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

have you talked to any of her friends (girls) about this? there’s a good chance that they’d have pretty good, specific ideas on what to do.

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Matt of rock offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Potter Street, F6, GB | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

no she dont have any girl friends that r close 2 her or ne 1 that we both know its just mainly guys

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Braad offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

Tell me how did you ask her out and what was her exact response?

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beyondconfuse offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

what about an absolute best friend or a sister?

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Matt of rock offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Potter Street, F6, GB | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

i asked her out by text but i did say that i couldnt find the perfect time 2 ask her…and her reply was that she likes someone else. although this was the same reply that she to one of my mates that asked her out.

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Matt of rock offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Potter Street, F6, GB | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (37 minutes after post)

beyondconfuse wrote:
what about an absolute best friend or a sister?

her best friend is being stupid at the moment and her sister is to young to understand

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Braad offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (39 minutes after post)

Hmm well that reply it could have been the truth or she could have been saying No nicely. If i had to do it, i would most likely get her in person or over the phone and tell her how you feel, how good of friends are you btw?

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Matt of rock offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Potter Street, F6, GB | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (41 minutes after post)

well we hit a rough spot when i asked her out 3 months ago but since then we have been working at getting the friend ship back

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beyondconfuse offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (42 minutes after post)

if you hit a rough spot, perhaps you shouldn’t take a chance again now.

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littlenick online Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (43 minutes after post)

If she already said no. Don’t expose yourself to more rejection. Let some time pass and see where you might go from here.

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Matt of rock offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Potter Street, F6, GB | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (44 minutes after post)

well it wasnt a rough spot like she didnt want to know me ne more it was just that she just stoped talking for a week or two

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Braad offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (45 minutes after post)

Hmm if it was me maybe ask her to go hang out, as friends first and see what happens from there.

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Matt of rock offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Potter Street, F6, GB | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (47 minutes after post)

thing is that she might not go just me and her she will want someone there as she thinks i might pull something off on her

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beyondconfuse offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (49 minutes after post)

maybe she still needs the trust (although you didn’t necessarily break it) to rebuild.

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Potter Street, F6, GB | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour after post)

maybe i hope thats the reason as i would really like 2 ask her 2 b my 1

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beyondconfuse offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

i wish you the best of luck

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