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So theres a girl.

I’ve known her for YEARS, last year around this time (Give or take a week) we were very near to dating, but she said that we knew eachother for so long and it felt weird. So we ended up not dating. At the time she was not but 16, and I 17. She wasn’t allowed to actually ‘date’ according to her parents, and can’t until she is 18. She said to me that maybe she wouldn’t feel so strange with me someday, and said this a day or two after it was ended. Then on her birthday she was walking with me and her parents, and she whispered into my ears ‘Two more years!’ The year went on, come June she moved to a city 30 miles away and went to a different school, and a different church. (We went to the same church) I gave her my email and we talked a little bit, then we abruptly stopped. I had counted it off that she no longer wished to talk to me ever again after I told her how I feel, and I went on with life. Fast forward to three days ago. She emails me, apologizing profusely for not emailing me for so long, saying she is bad with computers, she wanted me to email her back so we could talk. So I did, and told her I thought she wanted nothing to do with me. She also said that shes been asked out multiple times so far this school year by people who look desperate enough to pay her. And apparently theres a boy at her new church that follows her everywhere (Even into the bathroom on one occasion) and insults her. In this email she apologized again for not emailing me for so long, praised my intelligence, and then asked for me to please email her back. Now my question is: Whats up with this!? She goes from barely speaking to me back in spring, then apparently forgetting how to find my email over the summer (Shes bad with computers), to now begging me to talk to her and praising me.

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Kalorok offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

i cant say much here except she couldve been busy over the summer with work or something.. but it doesnt look good to boot

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cutencrazy8120 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

dude…really?? this should be the least of your problems……you sound like an odd person!!

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rich_pa offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

you can be there at her beck and call or get on wit your life the decision is yours not ours

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rockdude981 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (2 weeks after post)

dude, its obvious what happened. when she moved… she went out with someone, after a while, he dumped her, and now she just wants to be back wit u….

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