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My boyfriend can’t keep his hands off of my breasts and it is seriously driving me crazy.

I have asked him numerous times and nothing works. He can’t even give me a nice loving hug without grabbing them while he is doing it. Seriously … I need help with this before I lose it.

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veg_head offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (3 minutes after post)

You may need to tell him very calmly but seriously that he needs to respect your boundaries if he ever wants to see the ladies again. Tell him they are not squeaky toys.

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1 year ago (4 minutes after post)

Cut them off , his hands that is :-)

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1 year ago (5 minutes after post)

slap him on the face next time, tell him how you feel, then break up.

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faolteine offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Swillington, O7, GB | 1 year ago (6 minutes after post)

ok if he still wont listen after u try veg_heads idear tell him next time ur gonna grab his crotch. if he smiles follow it up with twist squeze pull (three words that will make any man cringe)

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Sir Urgdu offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Evanston, IL, US | 1 year ago (6 minutes after post)

Tell him enough is enough!

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Ξ.Ģäβž.Ξ offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (12 minutes after post)

It’s a bit sleazy, especially when you’ve told him it pisses you off.

I’ve had a couple of BFs that do that, and it was the reason I broke it off. It’s embarrassing, not to mention annoying when you know you cant even get a hug without being groped. That stuff should be reserved for times when ur in the mood for romance, not copping a feel everytime he passes you by.

I’d dump him like a ton of bricks if he doesn’t start listening. It’s pretty disrespectful.

Braad offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (16 minutes after post)

next time he does it, reach down and squeeze hard as you can where the sun don’t shine, see if he does it again.

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Time Traveller offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (26 minutes after post)

Don’t start a physical fight with him, that could be a really bad experience.

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kazb36 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (48 minutes after post)

it is just plain disrespectful. dump him.

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Srinh offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (6 hours, 50 minutes after post)

lol. the advertisting banner, “Breast Cancer Signs”.

That’s right, next time just say, “well thanx, but i dont need a mammogram right now.”

because i guess he sees them as fun. and likes touching them because he hasn’t been around many in his life.

Tell him how you feel. Be kind and light about it.

And if he doesn’t listen? Then take it to extreme measures, later on.

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