Love help: I just moved to be with my boyfriend who has suddenly decided that he’s not in love with me anymore but doesn’t want to breakup either. - Help.com

Do you want to break up?

no bc i’m stupidly still hopelessly in love with him

Well next question, what do you think you want to be when you grow up?

career wise

thought i wanted to be an english teacher

not anymore?

i don’t know what i want anymore

I would suggest you try to get your own place when you can because he says he’s “not in love with you”. That doesn’t seem to be a healthy kind of day to day lifestyle if you live with him.

i don’t live with him. I live alone. he still lives with mommy an daddy

Things will start to go your way, don’t give up. You deserve to be happy.

ya you sound like every other person that has said that for the past three years

I have invited some people who are really good helpers. I hope you feel better.

sure

He cant keep you in a relationship where he doesn’t love you,he at least owes you the respect to let you move on with your life hon. Decide a career and plan your life. You owe this to yourself, have a bright future. :-)

then why do i find it impossible to leave him

i see no future for me at all

if you dont know what you want to do in college its ok just find your options n pick out what u would like too do there r so many great things you can get into.n if your boyfriend wont break up with you then maybe he still has hope for the relationship

You have become set in your ways with him, and are probably scared of the big wide world alone, be self assertive hon, you can make it alone, better that than to stay in a loveless relationship. from his side anyway.

thank you G

i dont want to change anymore. im so over change

Well, I have been with my “ex fiance` ” for 10 years now…but been in a city he promised that things would be great. I use to live in Northern California and he promised that if he moved me and my kids to Southern California things would be much better….. Well, we have been here for 5 years now. And I have to say it has been very, very hard and stressful. Nothing he has promised has come to be. We have now come to a point in our relationship that we have agreed to part because he is not happy and not in love with me…. he loves me…but “NOT IN LOVE”. So my point is….. we have been contemplating ending the relationship for over 5 years….but…. because we are so stubborn and strong minded/stubborn….we tried working it out. If for some reason you or he already were not happy and thinking about ending it…. you should end it now because you have less material and physical/mental attachment with each other… I wish you the best… & remember…. Think of you first because no one will!
With love….
a WOMEN!

It’s so funny because I wanted to complain about my life…… I wanted to complain about wanting to END my life…. But I came across this blog… Life as a woman can be so hard. In the bible it says that we are to desire our husbands and long for them…. so it is distend…. But if you see the signs before hand, take action! Take action my young sister and run…. Think of YOU! I’m not saying to be thoughtless of him…. but…. be thoughtless of him…understand? Men… ugh…men have a back up plan ALWAYS…. You do the same! if you need to go back where you came from to succeed, then do that… Don’t be ashamed! Just do it!

Don’t let the guy have that much control over you.
If he says he doesn’t love you anymore and you still do, then get away from him until you don’t love him anymore.
It won’t make you feel better staying with him.
Your hapiness matters more than his.
Even if you feel miserable leaving him, you know it’s the right thing to do for you!
And it won’t feel as miserable if you stop telling yourself to stay with him because you love him! Love is not always enough!!
He can’t expect you to stay with him after telling you he doesn’t love you anymore.
So get a hold of yourself and leave him. That’s step one.