Remind her that you are there for her if she wants to talk or needs support. Try not push her if she’s having a bad time. If you care for her just let her know that.
So i met this girl..He lives around 5000 miles away
Um…
Ankit invited 22 users to read this post 11 months, 3 weeks ago.
i think she doesnt love you
tricky wrote:
i think she doesnt love you
Xeno Dragon wrote:
So i met this girl..He lives around 5000 miles away
Um…
yep..we met once only..and since then we have been talking on phone..but we never said we love each other.
Xeno Dragon wrote:
So i met this girl..He lives around 5000 miles away
Um…
*she…:(
ankit wrote:
tricky wrote:
i think she doesnt love you
Xeno Dragon wrote:
So i met this girl..He lives around 5000 miles awayUm…
yep..we met once only..and since then we have been talking on phone..but we never said we love each other.
than she doesnt like you
Ankit edited this post 11 months, 3 weeks ago. Read the previous text »
Ok here I am again..:(
So i met this girl..He lives around 5000 miles away from my town, and for some time we also click..:)
But suddenly she stopped all contacts, stopped receiving my calls, donot reply to mails etc..When i push harder, she replied that she is hurt by constant quarrel between her parents and has lost faith in love and marriage..
The only way to communicate with her is through cellphone, which she seldom picks up.
Advice please..:(
tricky wrote:
ankit wrote:
tricky wrote:
i think she doesnt love you
Xeno Dragon wrote:
So i met this girl..He lives around 5000 miles awayUm…
yep..we met once only..and since then we have been talking on phone..but we never said we love each other.
than she doesnt like you
i was assuming the same, but why would someone lie so much abt personal life when just ” i dont think u click me” will do?”
maybe she doesnt want to hurt you
and is unwise enough to think by saying lies she will not feel you bad… which ofcourse we al know it makes things worst
tricky wrote:
maybe she doesnt want to hurt you
like she is not hurting me now..:(
NVM, I will always consider her my frnd..:)
But basically my question revolves around “should I try to convince her that things are not that bad after marriage and her parents are exception to that?”
ankit wrote:
NVM, I will always consider her my frnd..:)But basically my question revolves around “should I try to convince her that things are not that bad after marriage and her parents are exception to that?”
why doesnt she be the exception and make a marriage what it should be ?
tricky wrote:
ankit wrote:
NVM, I will always consider her my frnd..:)But basically my question revolves around “should I try to convince her that things are not that bad after marriage and her parents are exception to that?”
why doesnt she be the exception and make a marriage what it should be ?
this and similar questions have been haunting me for the past 2 days..:(
ok after 1 hour i will come back and you ask me anything you want and i will give you my opinion on the matter ^_^ i have class now …
Maybe she needs some space….Well she obviously does but you know. Reasure her that you are here for her as a friend but also let her know how you feel. You need to tell her that just because her parents marrige is falling to pieces doesn’t mean all marriges do…Also remind her of the wonderful long time her parents were married. Those years before they broke up account for alot.
Oh and I smiled when I saw your name on the front page ankit…Not quite sure why….xx
Polly Power wrote:
Maybe she needs some space….Well she obviously does but you know. Reasure her that you are here for her as a friend but also let her know how you feel. You need to tell her that just because her parents marrige is falling to pieces doesn’t mean all marriges do…Also remind her of the wonderful long time her parents were married. Those years before they broke up account for alot. Oh and I smiled when I saw your name on the front page ankit…Not quite sure why….xx
Life is not as easy as I wanted it to be..:)
And I feel great that even my name can bring smiles on faces…:)
tricky wrote:
ok after 1 hour i will come back and you ask me anything you want and i will give you my opinion on the matter ^_^ i have class now …
will wait…
ankit wrote:
Polly Power wrote:
Maybe she needs some space….Well she obviously does but you know. Reasure her that you are here for her as a friend but also let her know how you feel. You need to tell her that just because her parents marrige is falling to pieces doesn’t mean all marriges do…Also remind her of the wonderful long time her parents were married. Those years before they broke up account for alot. Oh and I smiled when I saw your name on the front page ankit…Not quite sure why….xx
Life is not as easy as I wanted it to be..:)
And I feel great that even my name can bring smiles on faces…:)
Well I don’t think life would ever be fulfilling if it was easy…
And you should be happy about it :) Because it truly is a great quality to have.
Polly Power wrote:
ankit wrote:
Polly Power wrote:
Maybe she needs some space….Well she obviously does but you know. Reasure her that you are here for her as a friend but also let her know how you feel. You need to tell her that just because her parents marrige is falling to pieces doesn’t mean all marriges do…Also remind her of the wonderful long time her parents were married. Those years before they broke up account for alot. Oh and I smiled when I saw your name on the front page ankit…Not quite sure why….xx
Life is not as easy as I wanted it to be..:)And I feel great that even my name can bring smiles on faces…:)
Well I don’t think life would ever be fulfilling if it was easy…And you should be happy about it :) Because it truly is a great quality to have.
agreed…there wont be anything to live if there isnt anything to dream for..:)
Just that i have been prone to similar relationships a lot..Soem say there parenst dotn agree, some say they can settle in the city i m in..soem even say they dont want to marry software engineers(this was interesting)..:(
and now i m really really tired..
the only way you will have success with this 5ooo miles away Girl is if you come driving in front of her house with a Porsche .The only way…
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11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour after post)
oh im tired of being relationships, too.
but you will find one someday!! that’s what i believe.
give her sometime. she might need time to be alone. she might need you someday.
if u are pissed off bout how she treated you, you don need to be friends. realize that she is not the only one who is controlling your friendship(whatever you call it). you also can make a decision bout it. try to find a right girl.
As much as you may have connected with this girl. You have only met her in person once.
She lives 5000 miles away.
And unfortunately, there is little more that you can do when you are so far away.
I don’t see why she would lie to you at all.
She probably is having family problems, and being so far away, what can you do?
She will turn to you for support when and if she feels she can.
I would not take it so personally.
ok am back man if you have any quesiton am ready to give you my perpective or something
tricky wrote:
ok am back man if you have any quesiton am ready to give you my perpective or something
:)..thks for coming back..
Well..i think i should be “just friend” to that girl and leave things to time.After all time is the best medicine..:)
Wish me luck..
ankit wrote:
tricky wrote:
ankit wrote:
tricky wrote:
i think she doesnt love you
Xeno Dragon wrote:
So i met this girl..He lives around 5000 miles awayUm…
yep..we met once only..and since then we have been talking on phone..but we never said we love each other.
than she doesnt like you
i was assuming the same, but why would someone lie so much abt personal life when just ” i dont think u click me” will do?”
LOL, great question. It’s because you are comfortable with yourself and reality and value honesty, but you’d be suprised how rare that is.
chunkymove wrote:
ankit wrote:
tricky wrote:
ankit wrote:
tricky wrote:
i think she doesnt love you
Xeno Dragon wrote:
So i met this girl..He lives around 5000 miles awayUm…
yep..we met once only..and since then we have been talking on phone..but we never said we love each other.
than she doesnt like you
i was assuming the same, but why would someone lie so much abt personal life when just ” i dont think u click me” will do?”
LOL, great question. It’s because you are comfortable with yourself and reality and value honesty, but you’d be suprised how rare that is.
well..if its rare i am really going be to be surprised..:(
Ankit honey you always seem to be getting hurt by women, why don’t you give yourself a break for a while just concerntrate on you, by yourself.
As for this girl just leave her be and she will contact you once she is ready you don’t need to tell her about the values of marriage she will learn them by herself and make her own decisions, it’s just your job to accept them not force your opinions on her
Cakes;-) wrote:
Ankit honey you always seem to be getting hurt by women, why don’t you give yourself a break for a while just concerntrate on you, by yourself.
As for this girl just leave her be and she will contact you once she is ready you don’t need to tell her about the values of marriage she will learn them by herself and make her own decisions, it’s just your job to accept them not force your opinions on her
I think i really need a break now..:(
May be then i will contemplate on what is there in me which leads me to getting hurt..(May be over expectations?)..
Thanks cakes and all users on help.com
Mas 1st wrote:
I know marriage is very important to you but I dont think you have spent enough time with this girl to make a relationship, long-distance or otherwise.
Had you spent a week together then maybe but there isnt enough glue to hold it together right now.
Maybe as you said consider her your friend but I cant see Ankit how it will progress with this great distance between you and so little to bond you together. The reason people are couples is shared experiences and you and this girl have only shared a moment.
Try to lighten up your conversations, support her in the troubles in her family but maybe take some pressure off by getting to know her and no more talk of love and romance unless you are actually ever going to meet again. - Regards - Mas
Thank you Mas..I think its time to move on..again..:)
Thank you for taking time out of ur busy schedule for me..:)
ankit wrote:
tricky wrote:
ok am back man if you have any quesiton am ready to give you my perpective or something
:)..thks for coming back..
Well..i think i should be “just friend” to that girl and leave things to time.After all time is the best medicine..:)
Wish me luck..
goodluck bro :)
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