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how do i not feel like **** when thinking about my ex gf being with someone else after this is what she said to me last night online:

xxSweetLovexx (11:49:19 PM): can i ask you a ? and get an honest answer
Me (11:49:33 PM): ill see, but go ahead
xxSweetLovexx (11:50:15 PM): when like you see me, do you ever just get sudden urges to do bad things?
Me (11:51:49 PM): not really, cuz im tryin to get over you. but i wouldnt mind it, haha.
Me (11:51:56 PM): why do u ask, do you?
xxSweetLovexx (11:52:26 PM): guilty.
Me (11:52:34 PM): today?
xxSweetLovexx (11:52:53 PM): guilty. hahahaha
Me (11:53:04 PM): what exactly did u want to do
xxSweetLovexx (11:54:41 PM): idk
xxSweetLovexx (11:54:41 PM): lol
xxSweetLovexx (11:54:42 PM): things
Me (11:54:54 PM): u brought it up, so what did u wanna do
xxSweetLovexx (11:56:18 PM): haha so.
xxSweetLovexx (11:56:18 PM): u first.
xxSweetLovexx (11:56:18 PM): !
Me (11:56:30 PM): i didnt say i had urges
Me (11:56:38 PM): u did
Me (11:56:41 PM): so u tell me
Me (11:56:47 PM): and hurry up, cuz i godda go soon
xxSweetLovexx (11:57:15 PM): haha i am pretty sure you can only guess what i wanted to do
Me (11:57:26 PM): no, i cant think of anything, so just tell me
xxSweetLovexx (11:57:55 PM): lier
xxSweetLovexx (11:57:56 PM): something we used to do, that just feels right lol
Me (11:58:09 PM): and what would that be
xxSweetLovexx (11:58:51 PM): its like instinct now
xxSweetLovexx (11:58:52 PM): shut up u ***
xxSweetLovexx (11:58:52 PM): u r actually going to make me say it
Me (11:59:09 PM): kiss me?
Me (11:59:10 PM): or more?
xxSweetLovexx (11:59:29 PM): hahaha that and more

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undeveloped offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

well, we cant really be together because of her dad. id explain it, but its too complicated and im tired of explainin it.

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k4kieron offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 16 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

Dont put too much into it. Think about the moment not the future. You are definately in with a shot…Girls play games, especially 18year olds. Talk about getting together but act not bothered. You care but can live without. Show your inner strength and confidence and she will be putty in your hands…good luck. Be yourself but hidden.

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

yea, thats it warr3n.

i get what ur sayin k4kiero, but im a lil lost

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undeveloped offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

i should talk about getting together with her? what do u mean i should not act botherd. like if she says no or yes????

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k4kieron offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 16 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

you can live with or without - your sign ying and yang. There is only your direction. What will be will be. Not being smart *** just whatever happens will shape who you are so dont let it rule your life. More to it than 1 girl even if you get with her…

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k4kieron offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 16 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (33 minutes after post)

Shes giving def signs there
you can read the laughter. You made her feel good, give her more of the same but not all at once…Leave more to be desired and time will decide what happens.
dont be nervous all the time and dont expect the worst. See how it goes mate.

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k4kieron offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 16 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

if she says yes whatever you say will be fine - if she says no dont ruin it for the future. Say OK but we can’t really be friends…

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undeveloped offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

ok, i get ya. thanks.

part of it is that we were forced to break up, not because of anything that we did..

thats what i was doin before. lettin happen what does. im not gunna force anything. if its meant to be with me and her, it will happen.

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k4kieron offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 16 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (36 minutes after post)

true but it doesnt just happen…paths need to be kept with bread crumbs…sketchy but wise i think :o)

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (36 minutes after post)

we dont tlk much. like this is the 4th time that ive tlkd to her since we broke up

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (37 minutes after post)

did it send the other thing that i wrote before the one that starts with- we dont talk much?

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (38 minutes after post)

i know it wont just happen. i meant that if it happens that we get together than it happens, if not, then it wont. but im not sayin that i dont have to do anything for it to work

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k4kieron offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 16 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

K you got it sorted. Online chat keeps the heart warm…Your still communicating and thinking of one another. Imagine dates or scenarios and share a few - not all :o) If you love something let it go, if it comes back its yours for awhile longer if it doesnt it was never truly yours.

Good luck
Romance works a treat.
K

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (41 minutes after post)

i heard that saying before.

i only tlk to her if she tlks to me. i dont go out of my way to tlk to her. because im tryin to get over her.

this is so confusing

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