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What would you do if youre own family made u feel like nothing ?

Despite all youre efforts of trying to be nice to dem ?
Cry 4 them over overly concern , stay up late night beacuse u Worry bout their life & health ?
& all you get back in return is ignorance ? & cold feelings ?
Try and put the past behind me , but it keeps playing in rewind in my mind about all the terrible words & names they called me when i was little, beacuse i was underweight & wet my bed at night.

Eventhough im grown now I feel that i love my family so much , but i dont get the love feeling back from them , i can feel it from my brothers from time to time .
But evrybody else seems to be doing anything to keep me away .

Eventhough im making somewhat progress in my goals , i feel taken down cus my own mom put her man infront of me , the same man that called me ” ungreatful worthless dog” & then tried to put his hands on me for trying to defend me .

My dad used to abuse us for as long as i can remember wasnt that enough?
Mom had a ruff life to , but is this ok ?

Confused …. I know i have to move from here , but i dont know were to go ..
What would you do ?

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reall offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (13 minutes after post)

Get some grammar lessons.

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An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (18 minutes after post)

first i would tell them how i feel then if that didnt work i would try to understand why they are that way maybe they have so much going on that they are pushing u away n dont even notice but what i would do is keep shoing them love but
just start to worry about my self more and make sure i do what i have to do so i can have a good life for myself

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Gloversville, NY, US | 12 months ago (3 hours, 2 minutes after post)

being a child of the exact same situation, maybe a little more horror…. and being 34 now, i have to say… you can only do what you need to do in life to make yourself happy.. i myself have forgotten about them… left at my own will and refused to look back. i do not contact them what so ever, infact the only time i ever talk to them is when they are looking for money.. and they call me.

although it is still very hurtful to know that your family doesnt treat you like you are family, you really must move on… because it will never change. the only change that can happen is what you do for yourself. best of luck.. hugs.

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