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I like this girl I work with. I started at this girl a little over a month ago. She’s really sweet, but she’s really busy with school and work. I want to ask her out. Do you think it’s ok to say “I know your really busy, but would you like to go out to dinner sometime?” And see what she says.

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A Hoe offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

Its ok.

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chrisruffne offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

take it from me relationships from work DONT work, i work with a guy that dated our secretary for about 6-8 months then he got her pregnant and now shes 6 months along and they are broken up and he is not in a good position

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Tyranid Tamer offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

It may not be as extreme as chrisruffne’s example, but I agree that work relationships are rarely ever a good idea. If it gets awkward, it can be hard to overcome.

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Grim_Hardcastle offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 59 minutes after post)

Even though u might miss out on a great chance. Guess there is about 50-50 in your case. Ralations are never easy. Think u should do what feels right for u to do.

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Miss Panther offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (5 hours, 58 minutes after post)

go for it :)

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