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I wish i knew what he was thinking…

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I met a guy a few weeks ago… we got along really well. and we see each other alot. Through friends, parties ect.

Everytime we see each other its really cute. Huggung, kissing, holding my hands the whole night, Hugs and kisses me good bye.
He has stayed over my house.

We talk on the internet sometimes, not much tho.
Im just really confused if he likes me?! He told me once he did but im still not sure.
Im really into him, Its just really really confusing!

I start to miss him when i dont see him for a few days and everything. its really pathetic since we are not together or anything. lol

I just want to know whats going on in his head… does he ever miss me? does he think about me as much i think about him?
GAHHHH ITS DOING MY HEAD IN! lol

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Michael Leibman offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Littleton, CO, US | 1 year ago (7 minutes after post)

Im just really confused if he likes me?! He told me once he did but im still not sure.

He probably really really really really really likes you. Because, a guy wouldn’t kiss a girl unless he really liked her, because girls have cooties and they like to watch sappy romantic dramas where people kiss a lot and stuff. So he must personally like you a lot.

I’m no expert.

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qtdeedee0 offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (9 minutes after post)

i think he likes you take his word for it he told you his self girl! lol i know how u feel!

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Braad offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (21 minutes after post)

sounds to me like he likes you alot. tell him how your feeling!

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¡ʎuɐɟɟıʇ offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (23 minutes after post)

This is confusing for me.

I do think he likes you ..but also, if he did, wouldn’t he make things ‘official’? Maybe it’s just me? But I don’t hold hands/kiss/etc. someone whom I’m not dating.

Don’t want to get personal, but are you guys being intimate? If so, he could just consider you a ‘friends with benefit’ type of thing. :/

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¡ʎuɐɟɟıʇ offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (28 minutes after post)

Michael Leibman wrote:
because girls have cooties

But I thought boys had more cooties? :P

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1 year ago (29 minutes after post)

noooo
we are not intimate.

It also sucks because he is so shy… like we talk, joke around bla bla bla.
But we dont talk about how we feel about each other, which makes it really confusing.

I just need reassurance, then things maybe a little less awkward for us…Evan tho when we see each other its always fun and entertaining.

If that makes sence.

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¡ʎuɐɟɟıʇ offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (31 minutes after post)

Okay well.. Then just ask him.
“I’m realizing I have a lot of feelings for you and I was sort of wondering if you felt the same?” Something along those lines.

It’s hard for shy people to speak up, especially if it’s something dealing with relationships. That’s how it is for me, at least.

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justabum offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (6 hours, 41 minutes after post)

just ask him.
Shy people just needs a little boost, a kick if you will. lol
He probably doesn’t want to ruin what you already have, maybe he is afraid of pushing you away from him. Let him know how you feel.

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