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I’ve turned into something i despise.

i once thought i had everything a good job a beautiful girl and plans of marrage house and kids. Then it all fell apart when she left me. Since then i became an addict and lost several jobs as fast as i could get them and now live with my parents and lost my license to a dui. So now i’m without job, license, and really friends to speak of.

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dimmingstar1376 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (10 minutes after post)

we all become somethng we dont enjoy to look back on as long as we learn from it we become stronger and our experiences can help us help others

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An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

It’s easier said than done but you need to pick yourself up and get your strength back… You can still have the future that you dreamed of, it’s not out of reach, you just have to believe in yourself… I strongly believe that everything happens for a reason and you gain strength from each thing… I know that it’s very difficult to drop an addiction and maybe your parents can help you through it, as long as you want to quit, it will help!!! I utilize public transportation, I never got my license… you can take the bus until you get your license back and find a job that you won’t get too stressed out at so you don’t want to relapse due to stress… Also, I don’t have any friends either, I have some acquaintances but no real friends… You can do it!!! Believe in yourself, your recovery and your future… believe in your dreams!!! I wish you the best of luck, everybody has hard times which are a test and we would never appreciate the great things and people without them.

I’m always here if you need to chat or anything at all… I believe in you!!!! Take care!!!!

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An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (1 hour, 10 minutes after post)

Sorry about your breakup. Don’t let it become the defining moment of your life. Get your act together and set some goals. Ditch the alcohol. Get into AA. And don’t harm yourself when something doesn’t go your way. We all experience disappointments and setbacks. What’s important is how we deal with them. You’ll find love again. First, however, you must love yourself. And forgive yourself for your past mistakes.

The DUI may have saved your life. Look at it from that standpoint: God is not finished with you! You still have a mission to perform upon this earth!

You are, in short, very IMPORTANT . . . now get out there and start realizing your true potential!

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An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (2 days, 1 hour after post)

You can apply for freelance writing, bookkeeping, software, transcription, online tuition or customer service work at home jobs. These companies do not require any fee and pay well . List of companies(with websites) offering genuine work at home jobs is available at http://www.pcworkathome.net . Many of these companies have been in business for several years

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