Love help: It seems like we are not ment to be…………

faithbaby199

It seems like we are not ment to be…

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See me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 2 1/2 months but we broke up 4 3 weeks because i had found out he was cheating on me with my best friend and i took him back. He says hes in love with me so much he never wants to let me go…….i just feel like we shouldnt be dating that we are 2 strangers who just met but we have known each other for a long time. He is really nice and treats me with respect and all but i just feel like he really doesnt care an dhe just wants me so he looks good to the others at skoo. His friends say he doesnt even want to be with me exept for well you all know…………but they all have lied in the past and he says he truly cares but i really dont know what to believe any mre. then i was going to break u with him and he started crying and was calling me a ***** and said i hate your **** moods latly and mainly i dont have mods its just i have a lot of **** thats going on in my life right now.I told him its just me and its not him and we can still be friends but he wont let o and wouldnt let go
i cant let go either
i do like him but i dont think he feels the same way
he even lets me get picked on by bullies or his friends and says rude **** bout me
he changed he was so nice and sweet
my mother even said that he is the nicest guy i have ever met
i feel like it is my fault though he has changed
i amalways worried he is going to hurt me really bad again literally
but its my fault i can feelit for some reason…………..
Is it really though or did he change cuz he made a mistake or just wants to be a jerk

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¡ʎuɐɟɟıʇ 1 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (6 minutes after post)

‘Once a cheater, always a cheater.’ :(

If he’s letting his friends talk **** about you, and he’s already disrespected you by cheating ..he doesn’t sound worth it to me.
Go find someone who will treat you right.

Help me with: This is quite ridiculous.

mar98 7 #
Dracut, MA, US | 12 months ago (17 minutes after post)

Agreed! Time to drop him.

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dimmingstar1376 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (19 minutes after post)

if he cheated on you he doesn’t respect you ..sorry but you do need to walk out on this relationship before it goes bad and you cant seperate from him

faithbaby199 0 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (33 minutes after post)

he wont even let me walk away from him he keeps holding on to my arms and wont let go

dimmingstar1376 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (38 minutes after post)

hmmm… take some friends with you when you leave he cant stop you then and keep yourself surrounded for a while he made his choice now you have to make yours its a consequence to his action whether he likes it or not he should have thought about what could have happened

faithbaby199 0 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

yea nex after i do that my mom will hate me for sure
lol
i realy scewed up this time

PaDLe 2 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (1 hour, 33 minutes after post)

why would your mom hate you?

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faithbaby199 0 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (1 hour, 40 minutes after post)

she thinks that this is the only nice gut for me and shes mad i live with my father
instead of her

PaDLe 2 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (1 hour, 51 minutes after post)

Well, talk to her about it and just do what makes you happy. I broke up with my ex and my friends thinks that I’m crazy, only a few that actually supports me. You’ve only been going out for 2 1/2 months. Get out before you go deeper in the relationship. Did your mom knows that he cheated on you?

Help me with: Making Decision.

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An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (18 hours, 48 minutes after post)

I have things to say well look I always thought that if you cheat on your spouse its only because you dont want them. People say it could be becuase that girl/boy was sexy and interesting ok but if you love who your with it shouldnt matter if they were super models.

What you need to do:
Its going to be hard but you need to let him go for a week or two more
dont call him dont write him when you are at school always look happy
no matter what.. Make him feel that he really needs you to be complete
that determines if he wants you cause obviously throughtout those
two weeks he’ll be asking for you but you got to say no..

Usually some guys give up around 2 weeks and move on so i’d say after that first week of him asking for you back talk to him tell him what he needs to do better and if he cant suceed then he cant have you!

&& of course if he dont try to get you then all his friends are telling the truth mama he obviously dont want you!

Help me with: He broke up with me yall!

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