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I love him.

I love this guy, hes in most of my classes and hes really nice!
He seems to be intrested in me..but sending mixed signals.
How do i make him like me/ feel comfortable about everything?
Oh and my best friend also likes him but she feels bad considering the situation.
But I want some tips to make him want me =]

Heeelllpp?

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nyani offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

He either likes you or he doesn’t. Just be yourself, if it’s meant to be it will happen. Don’t hide, but don’t throw yourself at him either. A little aloofness goes a long way…..

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nyani offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

Is he a confident guy or fairly shy? If he is confident play it very cool, they like the chase. If he is shy then maybe you should be more aggressive and direct.

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jenny__x_ offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

im just really shy..

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jenny__x_ offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

And hes not shy at all

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justif offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Guys don’t use mixed signals. They always have clear intentions. Girls often confuse their thoughts together and get themselves to think they are mixed signals.

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nyani offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

I was really shy in high school, and terrified of boys. I’m older now, and I regret not being a little bit more forward. Sometimes it helps if you pretend not to be shy - just talk to him as though he were anyone else - a good friend.

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jenny__x_ offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

he is a good friend.. but i dont know, my friend is also in the classes and i dont want her mad at me for liking him.

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nyani offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

Did she “like” him first? That’s a tough one. Does she know you like him too?

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jenny__x_ offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

ahah no she didnt and she knows

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

I guess you have to decide which you value more, her friendship or the potential relationship….and if it’s a good friendship, it may not be worth the risk. Boys come and go, good friends are a lot harder to come by…

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